Social contact is a college question, but now I want to talk about my views on respect. When it comes to respect, it will naturally be inseparable from the memory of being respected. In fact, many people know whether they are respected or respected, but they are often ignored in social communication. I have my own experience and thoughts about this. In my opinion, no matter where you are, how high your status is and how powerful you are, you should always pay attention to respecting others. I had no concept of social relations before. I am thinking that it is just to maintain the relationship between people, just casually. So I did think so at that time, and I did not pay any attention to its thoughts in my life. As a result, I got along with everyone in a mess. Now when I think about it, I think one of its root causes is that I don’t understand the concept of respect. Therefore, because I take it for granted to treat others in my own way, I will receive corresponding responses. I felt very uncomfortable at that time. I think it should be intimate to get along with two people. I can call you whatever I want. But I didn’t think about the consequences. But when others call you in the same way, they feel very uncomfortable. That is to say, I can’t stand using my own way on myself. So later I found that respect is a great knowledge. If you do not take care of it, it will bring you a lot of troubles and worries. Sometimes I think about how to achieve the problem that makes people feel that they respect him. Because I often think about it, I have some of my own practices. If two people meet each other, there must be a proper formal appellation. Then you must do things straight away and treat each other reasonably according to the rules. Then there are two people who have known each other for a long time. They have to communicate with each other to change their original habits of dealing with each other. Of course, in essence, we still need to do things in a proper manner. Just a little casual on the surface, a little intimate. But as long as you are good at interpersonal relationships, you will find two friends who have good relationships. The harmonious cycle of their relationships is definitely related to the fundamental principles of their work. And this principle is the rule. Everlasting universal rules. And the good interpersonal relationship between the two does not mean that there has been no waves. Only when we stick to the principle of right and wrong can there be friction. Of course, it is reasonable to think about each other’s actions afterwards, so the original friendship will be restored soon. In fact, after all, there are only a few things between people. It is nothing more than that some small interest relationships need to be handled properly. There is almost nothing else. But considering these, I still want to say that it is very difficult to respect others. In life, many people pay attention to respecting others, but the interpersonal relationship of many people is very bad. I think there are many elements in it. For example, his EQ is high and low. There is also the problem of using and scheduling his expressions. There is also the problem of his language expression ability. Anyway a lot a lot. What I want to say is to respect others. Some people say that I AM has been respecting him. But he is very dissatisfied with me. Why? There are also many elements in it. But now I just want to talk about one aspect. That is, you respect others in your own way. Of course, because you don’t care about others’ thoughts, most of them are not satisfied. I conceived an example of this. For example, a Hui nationality comes to a Han nationality family as a guest. If the Han people didn’t know that he was a Hui nationality, they would treat him with pork. If there was trouble, they would communicate with each other, and maybe they would get the understanding of the Hui nationality. Of course, if you know, if you still do this, there will be many consequences. If there were more ethnic groups than Han people at the dinner table last time, then you knew that you still needed to do so. I think an indoor boxing was inevitable. If there are few Hui people, you also know that they are Hui people. You still don’t pay attention to these, and if you put pork food on it, the consequences will be bad. But he just dared not to speak out. Even at that time, you didn’t do extreme behavior, but you will learn a lesson if you go to associate with him another day. In fact, what I want to say is that respecting others can be done well on the basis of understanding others. If you respect others intentionally, but others don’t think you respect them, then such respect is a failure. Only after we understand each other, and at the same time we reach a consensus, can we finish it. Otherwise hard. Just like what I just said. Han love to eat pork. Therefore, he cannot be left on the table on festivals and festivals. As a result, Hui people came from your family. He knows that you know that he is a Hui nationality. But you still make him pork food. That will definitely cause serious consequences. But you will want to say that the Hui people are human, so are the Han people. If we can eat pork, you will not suffer losses. Therefore, based on this kind of psychology, if you contact with Hui people, I think you will never get along well with him. Therefore, I invited the god of protection of all harmonious interpersonal relationships to respect, which means that everyone knows the word respect, but there are too few people who respect others in life. Of course, it is really difficult to respect others. I saw a news on the Internet that a cleaner had swept away the unfinished mineral water of a roadside person, so he fought. You see, this is an example of disrespecting others. He sat there with a bottle of water beside him, and you were not blind. Sweep it away for no reason, you see you are beaten! Of course, this not only reflects the issue of respect. It also reflects the problem of tolerance in interpersonal communication. I don’t think there will be any consequence of fighting if this thing is put on me. In fact, social contact is very complicated and simple. It is really not easy to understand it. But as a person, it is impossible to avoid social problems. I think I just want to talk about my own opinion. Most people in the society can handle the relationship well. So I say they are all sociologists. However, as a person who occasionally wants to talk about it, I will inevitably have shortcomings. Therefore, I said the above is for reference only. Please also invite Wenyou Haihan!

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(1) as soon as my husband put down the bowl and chopsticks, he stood up and walked to the yard, wandering around the small vegetable garden in the yard. Look up at the fruit trees, look down at the vegetables, and look at the vegetable garden. Suddenly said loudly: the cabbage is big, you have to choose a bigger one. The eggplant seedlings of the seedlings are all alive. I was waiting for the green onion to cultivate some soil for dinner. After dinner, I left the dining table scattered. I ran to the yard in three or two steps and walked to my husband’s side. My husband stopped, I stopped; My husband took a step forward, I took a step forward. In this way, I walked around the vegetable garden, pointing out various vegetables and laughing about the growth of vegetables, which excited me. Children often play with dogs for a while, while adults are busy doing homework. My husband said he had to walk around after the meal, afraid of oil accumulation. (2) these days, the vegetable garden is like a gradually sturdy child. The garden is lively and full of vitality, and the green dots turn into green groups. The planted green onion seedlings have been cultivated for once, and they need to be cultivated urgently. The green onion leaves are more than half a foot high, so they can be eaten; Several rows of oil and wheat leaves, though tender, stretch straight upward, it appears to be vigorous and powerful; The leaves of the lettuce are thin and curled, and the leaves are as bright as flowers, blooming beautifully one by one; The cilanthus has grown into leaves, and it is ready to be eaten after half a month; The leaves of the radish are emerald and, I looked at the bottom of the leaf and saw that the root was thicker than the thumb, which could be enjoyed in nearly ten days; The cabbage was surrounded by clouds of green because of the dense seeds, I have chosen a bigger one for several meals. A pot of potato and cabbage noodles, pure and delicious, Such as plain and long days; Eggplant and pepper are the seedlings bought from the vegetable market. It has been planted in the garden for more than ten days, and the seedlings have been changed, A traveller who seemed to have experienced a long-distance turbulence. Most of the leaves are dry, only one or two or half of them are green, tenderly trembling under the sunshine and the wind. Like spark, it is enough to make them grow luxuriant and luxuriant, to produce their own fruits, and to delight my heart. As long as you live, there will be a beautiful tomorrow; Pods, because of the cold weather this year, most of the seeds will die in the soil, and only a few eight or nine seeds with tenacious vitality will break through the soil. Although unearthed, like a sick baby, the leaves are small and yellowish. These weak lives, in the increasingly warm sunshine, in the hotbed with sufficient nutrients and moist soil, thrive day by day. The green and thick leaves have grown in these days, which makes people happy in their hearts. The pod has high yield and good taste. It can be fried or cold, which is a favorite dish of our family. In order to eat more days, I always order three times before and after. After breaking the ground for the earliest planting, then planting once, after the Dragon Boat Festival, So the pods should be eaten for about three months. If you can’t eat it, dry it in the sun and eat it during the new year, it becomes a unique dish on the New Year table. A lot of vegetables were planted in the small vegetable garden, which brought so much comfort and joy. (3) The winter fruit trees have been planted in the garden for six years, and the fruit has been hung this year. After the snow-like petals withered, green fruit balls hid in peach-shaped leaves one by one. If you don’t look carefully, you can’t find it. You have to search carefully. It seems to be hide-and-seek. If you catch it, it makes people happy. A little bit of green-soaked grapes make people think of the full and moist string of grapes, which is a bit incredible. It is so small that they grow up day by day and grow as round and clear as pearls and jade. That expectation makes people full of imagination. Last year, there were only four strings, one of which was ripe. The two sons saw it, picked one, smashed the mouth for a while, and finally spit out the grape skin. The sweet and sour taste was very long. (4) There is also a pear tree in the garden with few branches and thin leaves. Last year, it turned out for the first time that there were dozens of pear trees with thin and crisp skin. Maybe the tree is too small, which makes the tree earn, exhausting all the essence gathered for many years, and there is no fruit this year. I think a lot of fruits will be bred next year, but people should not be too greedy to let the tree exhaust the essence of the whole body, and should choose the best fruit. (5) after dinner, my husband walked around the vegetable garden for a few circles, put on the pot and began to water the vegetables. Suddenly leaves like Mu rain, fresh green and glossy, drops scroll. The soil is moist and fresh, and the air is filled with the fragrance of soil. Children are diligent and often take over the watering pot, spraying happily for a while. (6) The Grass Garden with only ten square meters is the paradise of our family and the paradise of many little creatures. Beetles, flying insects, earthworms, frogs, butterflies, spiders, and many unknown little creatures are running and multiplying on this small land, living happily. Sometimes there are birds coming, chirping on the fruit trees, jumping and catching insects, pecking on the vegetable garden soil for a while, and flapping over the roof. (7) Oh! My happy little vegetable garden! (Written on Saturday, May 31, 2014)

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