Why can’t rural teachers carry out new educational concepts? Why can’t we practice educational theory? These two problems in the past, I always thought that the issue of teachers’ treatment decided the current situation of teachers’ low enthusiasm. Today, I am watching Mr. Long Yingtai’s “children, when you take your time, I suddenly felt that it was far from that simple. Today, when I am in a small village in Chuanqian, I deeply feel that this is indeed not the case. I think there are at least the following points at present: first, it is not necessary for rural teachers to carry out new educational concepts and educational theory practice. Why say that? It is not that it is really unnecessary, but that it is the same for rural teachers to use or not. Because even if you use it, you won’t get anything, even if it is a little affirmation from others. Moreover, in the eyes of rural parents, the score is always the first. If your score doesn’t go up, you will be scolded by others, why do it? Do you make yourself mean? In rural schools, rewards and punishments for teachers basically do not exist, at least in my opinion, it does not exist in this village. So why do you do this honestly? For a teacher, his whole life is a big name and a small profit. A teacher is the most glorious profession under the sun, and a gardener…… Teachers dare not expect too much, just for their own efforts to get others’ recognition. But no, if it were you, would you do it? Second, the reality in rural areas determines that some theories cannot be used. Sometimes educational theories and educational concepts are not consistent. Many teachers have told me that short training outside can not be used in actual teaching. This is a very realistic problem. Third, rural teachers, especially old teachers, have deep-rooted traditional educational concepts and are hard to change. For young teachers, what can be learned in rural areas? When I was chatting with a teacher here, I talked about this problem unintentionally. He said that even though there was a lot of pressure in the city, he was still willing to stay in the city because there was a rush. This is my opinion for a long time. The treatment of teachers and rural conditions are so poor that the newly-born teachers seldom take the rural areas into account or consider the rural areas. In this case, the young teachers were naturally overwhelmed by the old teaching methods and teaching concepts, which was very helpless. In the end, they can only become traditional guardians. I think the above three reasons are comprehensive. In particular, the first and third points are the most deadly, which are internal causes, while the second point is external causes. So how to treat both inside and outside? I. Universities lead primary and secondary schools. This is the method to solve external causes. Professors, experts and front-line teachers establish long-term connections, guide teaching reform in real time and on the spot, carry out educational concepts and practice educational theories. II. The school establishes reward and punishment system and supervision system. Schools must clearly stipulate that teachers should carry out teaching reform and encourage new educational methods. Change the evaluation mechanism of teachers, gradually reduce the proportion of scores in the evaluation of teachers, and increase the reward for the innovation of teachers’ education and teaching practice. At the same time, it criticizes the teaching methods and teachers who stick to the old way to curb the development of students. And this reward and punishment must be linked to fame and wealth. III. Normalization of teacher mobility. The welfare system of teachers must be improved to avoid the worries of teachers. For teachers who have been teaching in rural areas for many years, they will be transferred to cities, while for teachers who have been teaching in urban areas for many years, a stable and mature flow mechanism of teachers will be formed. However, the welfare of teachers should be basically consistent, and the problems of teachers’ offspring and families need to be solved together.

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This afternoon, the whole school was cleaned up, and the overall situation was good. What moved me especially was teacher Li Mu, the head teacher of the 2009 preschool education class. When I checked, he was personally leading the students in the class to clean the cleaning area. This really moved me a lot because he was the only one among all the head teachers who was supervising on the spot. Moreover, because the tools distributed by the school were not enough, he also deliberately brought iron coins from home, do it yourself to clean all the fallen leaves in the flower bed. What do you think of the hygiene of our class? As soon as he saw me, he asked with a smile, how many points can he score? If you are here, you can’t be wrong! I also replied with a smile, it must be full score! Then he arranged several girls to clean the classroom. My classmates cleaned it very carefully. Looking at this touching scene of Labor, I smiled on my face and felt sweet in my heart! 2010 nian 3 yue 16 ri

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I opened the dusty memory again, and those beautiful words were wrapped around my heart, just like the breeze and flowing water all the way, tranquil, elegant, cool, delicate and refreshing, and lingering, which lasted for a long time. Pick up the pen and ink lightly, and book a season of love and resentment. In real life, only time can measure loneliness, and gradually realize that those who are still frowning, wandering in the sea of hearts, and still entangled in dreams are those who cannot be put aside, after all, you are just a mirage of life! Only when your heart is bleeding can you know the painful bone erosion, and only when you lose your eyes at night can you know the depth of love! Only when you turn around resolutely can you realize that the wound is really heavy. Why not forget that in the old Autumn, in the endless sunset, in the years when the cool wind passes through my ears, your flying shadow passes through my sky, leaving no trace. From then on, the vision you looked up and saw was no more than that floating cloud. In the annual rings of time, you once had a perfect throb and a incomplete encounter. The birds and geese who returned to their nests flew into the sunset, but they could not leave the wounds. Why not forget that in the poetic dusk, the wind is gone, the clouds are gone, and the old debts of the past are faded. There is no tree in Bodhi, and the mirror is not a table. There was nothing at first, but where did it cause dust? It just occurred to me occasionally in many of the past and caused some inexplicable sorrow. Years, be looking back, put pen to paper become cemni qing war, Tianya you across the Millennium dust fall into my zither strings. At the end of the song, you enter the poetic style, I enter the picture scroll, and there is a fairy tale forever. Why not forget that in the frost-dyed maple forest, walking in the misty rain with time and breeze, let the overflowing heart fly into the boundless sky; Don’t want to look back, I believe that there will still be Willow dim flowers at the corner of autumn. If they depend on each other, will it be at dusk? Years will finally weather the residual fragrance of fallen red, and life will finally force myself to slowly learn to wave my sleeves calmly, warm smile without pain. In the bustling and intoxicating of the red dust in Zimo, I don’t think about snow dance or flower flying, and I am wrapped in a plain and light worry, waiting for the passing of the fleeting years. When the dust settles, the love is full, the wind and frost are gloomy, and the old Red love you are on the corner of the wind and rain corridor, warming my waiting.

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I remembered a fairy tale I had read when I was a child, a little mouse hiding in the wall of the host family, because it often couldn’t steal food, and it was always a full meal and a hungry meal. One day, when the little mouse was dying of hunger, a fragrant smell of toast went into the hole and suddenly woke the little mouse up from the edge of hunger, so it climbed up and ran to the hole to absorb the attractive fragrance. The little mouse was very clever. He found a big bag, put the fragrance into his pocket and tied it up. From then on, when the little mouse was hungry, it opened its pocket and put some fragrance out to smell. Therefore, the little mouse no longer has to starve. After reading this little story when I was young, I was full of infinite longing and yearning for the delicious toast, except that I could satisfy my appetite and fill my stomach with doubts and confusion. Now, when I take a small bread maker home, when the home is filled with the fragrance of delicious toast, when I watch the sweet bread pop out of the bread maker one after another, I will think of the story of that smart and lovely little mouse happily. That little mouse stores bubbles of happiness, while what I store is a machine to make bubbles of happiness. Therefore, I am happier than that little mouse.

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In fact, only six years older, I still want to treat you as a friend or I prefer to reach the height of maturity before you. Sometimes I do think that you are still a child, so young, but you have to take so many responsibilities. Although you have found arms now, I don’t doubt whether your dependence is accurate, but I still have no choice but to see your hard work. I really hope that I can be born before you, then after that, in the corner of the bend, it is you who can have no worries. Of course, I also hope that I can create everything worth doing for you, although I am not capable enough, I will try my best. But now, I have become a person without success. In the atmosphere created by your heart, I am free and even free. I can think of the sufferings you have suffered, but I still can’t help myself. Maybe he is a person with such a character, but maybe with the specifications, the mold will be gradually framed, and he will be determined as he likes. Sometimes, you will be spoiled, but more than spoiled; You will also be angry, but more than angry, not angry, I will be wronged for you. Such a wonderful time really shouldn’t take away my sister. She can’t stand the wind and frost, and how can she enter the world. And I can only look around in the corner, praying that my dear sister, her future life will be peaceful and beautiful.

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When young people listen to the rain, they will not prepare for a rainy day, ride a bicycle, sprint in the rain, let the wolves in life come out of the nest at that moment, and give themselves the graceful figure once young! At that moment, I was beautiful, because of the rapid rain, the rhythm-like drum beat to wake up the scenery of sleep, and the light steps in summer and my back merged into a beautiful scenery line! But it is also because of young courage! Think about how can you run in the rain now, and how can your childhood be accepted by the silence of the world? But now? Will you accept it? My heartless listening to the rain will dazzle your reality! Listening to the rain when I was young, I could see that the sky was full of heroism, which urged the magic crystals to come down from the sky, clear and broken. One after another, like brave knights, and the world is like that happy Princess, waiting for their rescue! Listening to the rain, the young man loved the momentum of torrential rain, breaking the peace of grass growing and warblers flying, attacking the weakness of gurgling streams, tearing the tenderness of sunset and red clouds, and burying the colorful charming. I would rather urge the disabled than destroy it, but I still like the thrilling and arrogant one. It is arrogant and frivolous, and the arrogance it gives the world is a natural temperament! Deeply touched me, young and ignorant! When the young boy listened to the rain, he just didn’t feel sad. He didn’t like to think about it. He was silent and couldn’t hear the lonely in the rain clearly. He thought it was just the whisper of the affectionate poet! As time went by, I fell in love with the drizzle and low rain, which gave people much thought and nostalgia and reminded me of the girl in the rain Lane who was as bitter as lilac; I will think of the thin river boat, sorrow and sorrow the poet has placed countless lovesickness on the bright moon; I will think of the bright eyes of the lotus picking woman in the deep lotus root flowers full of love! The drizzle is mixed with many unknown feelings. You can understand that it is not listening to the lingering drizzle, but listening to its sorrow; It is not listening to the hazy drizzle, but listening to its loneliness; I love to hear its tenderness instead of the mess of drizzle! As time goes by, you will have a choice when listening to the rain, just like you have to face a choice in life. If you don’t want to wave goodbye to youth, you can only seek sorrow; If you don’t want to let fate go silently, you can only have no choice but to lament. Time is always eternal when you look back. You should learn to accept those sleeping and gone, and then tell yourself with a light smile that there is still a long way to go! When young people listen to the rain, they will not fall in love, that has withered courage. Waste it deep, let go, and the scenery will be complete! When a young boy listened to the rain, the auditory hallucination was like wind chimes, which could not resist the gloomy sway and shattered a childlike innocence. Could there be green water Castle Peak remote, which will love close Water Tower! Under the rain, I let my thoughts fall to the end of the world. My heart is as chaotic as rain feet, making my dreams noisy and shouting like a newborn bird breaking through the cage of my heart. I am can’t control the childish frivolous and innocent Jie-AO. Even if the dark clouds lightly press the colorful world and the thick fog and hazy world are far away, I still want the dream paper crane to get wet in the rain, but it is still crumpled flying! When young people listen to the rain, if they feel like their hearts, they will be happy. Love is noisy and chaotic, love is endless sorrow, love is the urgent soul, and they all love to accept the giving from the god! It is baptism, praise, sigh, who touched it unintentionally, knocked down the Temple of Heaven, poured down the nectar of the world, moistened the world! The thirst at that time was the extravagant demand now. My heart withered out of thin air. Who trampled on my falling red unintentionally! The countless years of fragrance are limited to early spring. What about my summer! Is there still a person who listens to the rain crazily, but you have crushed my summer dream! Listening to the rain as a young boy, my dream was filled with delight and melodious sincerity throughout my childhood. My heart leaped. Do you understand that I have lost it in the rain! Like (prose editor: Yue ran) the 30th year of my WeChat era

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Maybe it is because Northerners grow up in the countryside again. I feel that I have a strong sense of direction and almost rely on the orientation of the east, west, north and south. Many things can be muddled, but the east, west, north and south cannot be careless, every time you wake up, the first thing you need to figure out is the direction. Every time I go far away, it is inevitable to close my eyes and think strongly. In fact, it is trying to decide the direction or adjust the direction, which is similar to the time difference of going abroad. The feeling of losing direction, especially turning direction, is really beyond words. I often make an assumption: If I turn direction somewhere, even if I were allowed to be the emperor, I would never stay.

But when I went to a strange place, I often turned my direction and felt that it was not consistent with the reality. Even if I knew it was not in the north feeling intellectually, it was really awkward. In case of turning direction or falling direction, I also summarized the way to distinguish: Besides looking at the sun, stars and moon, looking at houses and solar energy, most houses in the north face the south and back the North, let alone solar energy. In the South, especially in the mountainous areas in the south, it is not so simple to distinguish. Whether the South doesn’t care much about the sun when it is close to the Sun, building a house or near the mountain or near the water or on the way, just don’t look at the sun and don’t follow the direction. What’s more incredible is that their solar energy has different directions. I just asked my friend in the South, who said at a loss what to do, which really surprised me. What surprised me more was that I heard earlier that children nowadays didn’t know about the east, west, north and south, so I deeply felt sorry for them. I always thought that they lost a precious function of feeling the world. I just want to go out several times recently. I don’t think about the direction at all, nor do I close my eyes and think about the direction. I don’t have to worry about turning the direction, so I feel relaxed. According to my habit, I want to find a footnotes of theory. There is: The world is under my feet, regardless of its east, west, north and south. Like (prose editor: Di Mo Chengshang) the 30th year of my WeChat era

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After this year, I went back to school by bus. From Harbin to Hangzhou, it takes several transfers halfway, so I bought a hard seat ticket. When I was about to leave, my mother told me that there were so many people in the car that she told me not to be stolen. For me, who had lived for more than twenty years, I naturally couldn’t understand this point, so I motioned my mother to feel at ease. When I got on the train, I was carrying a suitcase and looking for my position in a crowded car. There are really too many people in the car, which is not too much for me to describe. Finally, I stopped in front of a position, but that position was occupied. When I was hesitating how to speak, the middle-aged man seemed to see my hesitant look. He asked the young man, is this seat yours? I nodded. The man stood up apologetically and gave me his position. I thanked, put my luggage under the car seat and sat by the window. This journey needs to go through a night. At this time, migrant workers in the North are all on their way back to the south to work, so there are too many people and the air quality is poor, I had to look out of the window for peace. In this season, the wind and snow were flourishing. As the train started slowly, the vision outside the window was gradually blurred, with a vast expanse of white, but there was no special scenery. At this time, I heard someone asking the young man, are you a student? I looked back at the man who asked me and found that he was the middle-aged man who just sat in my position. Now he is sitting opposite me. I nodded and looked at him with astonishment. He seemed to understand my doubts and explained with a simple smile that I let people in this position. As soon as that man got off the bus, I sat back again. I nodded doubtfully and began to look at him. He was wearing the green military coat of more than twenty years ago, with dark skin and messy hair, holding a shabby cloth pocket in his arms. I don’t know what is inside. It seems that it should be migrant workers going to the south again. Maybe he felt me looking at me with vigilance again, looking at me and saying that my son was studying in changsha. This bag was made by his mother, and Rice was eaten in the South, so I sent it to my son. After hearing this, I felt a little like laughing. Now I can buy anything I want to eat. Why did I go all the way to send it to my son. Alas! Poor parents all over the world. When he looked at that middle-aged man for the second time, he had already handed me a yellow pancake. When I was stiff, there were so many people on the bus that I was embarrassed to ask for something for no reason. Besides, I didn’t know each other, so I was afraid that there would be harm. I have to refuse uncle Dao, no, I have eaten. Eat one, very delicious. The man had a warm face, but I was really embarrassed to refuse. Under his eyes, I slowly took the cake and took a bite. I thought to myself: there are so many people in the car that even bad people can’t do anything to me. Delicious? The man asked plainly. Delicious, lol. I smiled reluctantly and swallowed the dry cake forcibly. After that, because it was getting late, we gradually lost our words. I leaned against the window and fell asleep. When I woke up the next day, I used to look at the luggage under the seat and saw nothing in a daze. When I was stunned, my mind suddenly became clear. I was afraid that the luggage would be stolen, so I put it under the seat, but it was still gone. The luggage contains my half-year ration. I was about to arrive at the station. I was a little flustered and was about to leave to look for it. But when I looked up, I found my luggage beside the feet of the middle-aged man opposite me. My heart suddenly thumped. It was really not a good person. I walked to the front of the man and lifted the luggage angrily. As soon as I got back to my seat, the middle-aged man was awakened by my actions. He looked at me with anger, a simple smile, young man. Last night, a child spilled water under your seat. I think you care about that box very much, I put the box beside my leg, which is also safe. With his words, I lowered my head and looked at it. As expected, there was still water stain under the seat, and I felt ashamed immediately. He continued to say, young man, it is good to be careful outside, but don’t believe nobody, be alert to things, after all, people live for a lifetime, always believe something. Looking at his simple smile, my heart was deeply shocked. I apologized to that middle-aged man and recognized my mistakes. Indeed, nowadays people are full of distrust and Doubt. Because of money and interests, trust, a synonym, is rare. This is also the reason why I always think people are inferior to others. Therefore, when I was a child in rural areas, the trust and simplicity among people were what I missed. Soon, the bus arrived. I said goodbye to that middle-aged man. He helped me carry my heavy luggage and sent me to the front of the car door. I thanked him again and again. He said nothing but showed a simple smile. After getting off the bus, I stood in the crowd with warm sunshine shining on me. I suddenly remembered the words of middle-aged people that people should believe something all their lives. I smiled, this person really gave me a profound lesson. Looking at the Golden Sun, I suddenly felt that even though time could take away a lot of things, no matter after thousands of years, it could not take away trust. The simple smile of that middle-aged man appeared in front of my eyes again. The kind person was this beautiful flower, which bloomed in the field, and the fragrance dispersed around.

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The wind is very strong tonight, the night is lost, the moon can not get rid of the darkness, beating and struggling, giving out a tiny light! Ideal shore boat, sailing water reef heavy, ideal shore wind, line is like riding, ideal shore dream, blow yilianyoumeng! When I was a child, I liked painting, and there were scumbags in the house. I felt that what I painted was still the same thing. Later, I liked to make clothes for dolls with shabby clothes. My little hands sewed dresses and cheongsam one by one, shawl. Fantasy can become a designer in the future. After becoming a salesman, I dreamed of becoming a successful person. With too much emotion, I was more eager to be a poet and a writer. When I was getting older, I found that I was too talented to learn and too limited. People are great because of their dreams, and I don’t need dazzling Halo either. Maybe I can’t reach my dream in my whole life, and I will slowly crawl in this direction. When I was young, I felt that I was an ugly duckling. I became a White Swan and flew away. From then on, I became a joke of my family. Now I don’t understand that this idea was born at a very young age. I called my mother today, Speaking of what I have done, it is hard to say. Mom said that she could handle her own affairs, but I said I didn’t know. Mom said to do it first, I am can’t sleep at night, mom said that you know how much you worry about! I was embarrassed like a child who made a mistake, thinking over and over again whether I was wrong or not. I had no hesitation at the beginning and was worthy of it. If you get one thing, you will definitely lose one thing. Friends say that this is growth. I don’t think it is necessary to give up if you don’t insist. Giving up may turn around!

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流年里,多少故事,无论是发生在别人身上或自己身上,都是人生真实的借鉴,每一则故事都是来源于生活.

———-题记 (一)内耗 初中校园到了放学时间,总有不少家长候着,等待自己的孩子一起回家。 老袁开着箱式小货车从菜市场过,他打算把车上菜卸了之后去学校接放学回家的儿子。小货车开到菜市场入口处停在了路当中,他让客户把菜从车上搬下来,自己却在车上听音乐。这时一辆小轿车从对面而来,指示灯亮着分明要进菜市场,本来菜市场的路虽然不宽,但两车完全可以并排着走的,可是老袁把车停着不是位子。小车司机不停的按喇叭示意老袁把车让一让,老袁坐在车里头,回头透过驾驶室的玻璃,看了看自己车后的货箱,见菜快卸到一半了,懒得理小轿车司机,趴在方向盘上把收音机声音开得老大。 小轿车不能走,后面两边进出菜市场的不少摩托车又接踵而来,一时间菜市场入口处被围得水泄不通。人群中谴责声不但传来,老袁充耳不闻,卸完货,老袁示意小轿车司机让他先过,小轿车司机回头看了看后面一大堆人群,和成丁字行的路形,觉得自己这不好让,硬要老袁让,老袁回头看看自己车后的一大群摩托车和人群也觉得自己不好让,又让小轿车司机让,小轿车司机不让出言激烈,老袁也毫不客气和他吵了起来,如是双方就这样僵持起来。老袁想: 我就这样耗着,我出不去你也别想进来,看你把我怎么样。 当交警赶来疏散了人群后,离老袁他儿子放学时间已经过了半个小时了,老袁匆匆赶到学校门口见一群人围着一辆救护车,两穿白大褂的医务人员抬着一担架,担架上的那个孩子正是自己的儿子,原来自己没按时到学校来接儿子,儿子在学校门口等他时遇到社会无业流氓,这些人找儿子要钱,儿子没钱给,被这些人打成重伤。老袁后悔不已,觉得自己真不该和别人这样耗着的,若自己让一让就不会发生这样的事。 为赢别人而故意耗着时间,不惜两败俱伤来与人相对,世间最愚蠢的事就是内耗。 (二)爱的方式 她总在家让女儿学着做家务,丈夫总埋怨她,说她做母亲的狠心,不该让女儿那么点小就开始学习洗衣、做饭、买菜,丈夫心疼女儿,每次她让女儿做家务时,丈夫一边责备她,一边抢着自己去做她吩咐女儿做的事情,她总是语重心长的对丈夫说,如果有一天她离开我们独立生活后,什么都不会做怎么办?丈夫则横蛮不讲理的说,到了那一天再说。 丈夫突然急性阑尾炎发作,送到医院医生当时就要给丈夫动手术,说不能拖了,丈夫开刀动手术时,女儿正在学校上课,而她在国外出差,不能回家照顾丈夫和女儿,还没进手术室之前,丈夫就打电话给隔壁的邻居,让他们关照一下自己的女儿,让女儿中午若是回家就到邻居家吃饭,邻居接到电话后在电话里答应了。尽管邻居答应了,可是丈夫躺在病床上还不放心。邻居挂断电话后,就忙赶着去看他,当邻居到医院把他料理好了后,邻居再回家准备给他的女儿和自己家人做饭时,他女儿已经回来了。 中午,他躺在病床上,迷迷糊糊睁开眼睛时,发现女儿和邻居正坐在他床边说话,邻居见他醒了,忙告诉他,说回去时看见他女儿已经将饭做好了,他诧异的望着女儿,女儿对他说: 爸爸,我今天上午最后一节课是体育课,老师有事提前放学了,我回家后,看见你不在家里,我看见你平时那么辛苦,我想做顿饭给你吃的,没想到你却到医院来动手术来了,你安心养病,我一个人在家会照顾好自己的,你想吃什么我回家做给你吃,不会做的我看着食谱去做。 多懂事多能干的孩子,教育有方啊! 邻居也赞叹起来。这时,他不禁怀念远方出差的妻子来了,心想: 辛亏平时妻子让女儿学着独立 。女儿这几天一个人在过家他也就放心了。 爱子女的方式有千种,最为实用而对子女最有帮助的一种就是让子女学会独立。 (三)陨落 她半岁开口喊人的第一声就是爸爸,一岁开始已经会说很多话了,于是,她的父亲就开始教她背唐诗宋词,两岁半上幼儿园,这个时候她父亲就开始教她识字,四岁的她开始读小学一年级,从上学开始,她一直是班里最小的孩子,但是成绩总在学校名列前茅。 她上学时,每次只要是语、数、外比赛,无论是市里还是省里的,她都能拿到前三名的奖杯,被所有人誉为神童,但是谁都不知道这神童被后是经历了什么样的洗礼。 她的父亲见她那么点小就开始读书,生怕她跟不上同班的孩子,怕她输在了起跑线上,每年放寒假和暑假总是花重金请人给她补课,平时里做完作业后,父亲还要给她布置其它的作业。 十岁读中学以后,她的初中和高中都是读的素质班,她是班里最小的孩子,也是班里成绩最好的,更是学校数一数二的尖子生。每天晚上她在家里做作业,几本作业一做就做到晚上十二点才睡,清晨,六点不到还在睡梦中的她就被父亲叫起来去学校上早自习,中午回家吃完饭还不能休息,还要做很多的作业。 年复一年,日复一日,她的成绩总在班里学校里考第一、二名,到了高二时,十五岁的她突然辍学,无论谁劝解她都不听,她说她再也不想读书了。她父亲一气之下狠狠的打了她一顿,这是她出生以来,为她引以为傲的父亲第一次打她,无论父亲怎么打,她一滴眼泪也没流。打完她,她父亲把她锁在家里,去找学校老师说情让她重返校园,学校老师也舍不得她,居然留下她的学籍,等待她重返校园。但是当她父亲回到家时却发现她已经翻阳台逃跑了,于是,她父母及老师还有同学都满世界的找她,可惜她再也没回来。她就这样退学了,所有的人为她惋惜,都说,她如果这样读下去,名牌大学垂手可得,她就像一颗陨石,就这样放弃了自己。 望子成龙,望女成凤,是所有做父母的夙愿,但是,让孩子学习太累,不但没有起到预想的效果反而还让孩子产生逆反心理。在这个世界上,不是每一个神童长大后都能成为天才。 (四)你不懂的伤 他老实,长得一表人才,家里开了个酒楼,日进斗金,有车有房,家里条件很好,在当地,他家是屈指可数的富户,很多女孩都想嫁给他,都被他一一拒绝,最后他和她结婚了。 原本,外人都很羡慕,说她幸福,可是,谁又知道她的苦楚。她和他离婚了,外人纷纷猜测,有的说他看着老实,其实心很深,说他在外一定是包养了个小三, 瞧,老婆身上常常被他打得青一块紫一块的, 也有的说是她的问题,说是她在外有了外遇被他知道了,他才下手打她的。 可是猜测归猜测,其实他夫妻两在外谁都没有人,他事业蒸蒸日上,他对她很好,他老实虽不在外面沾花惹草,也从来不赌不嫖,他每次赚的钱都一分一文的交给她,对她呵护备至,疼爱有加,但是,他却有个怪毛病,他爱喝酒,每次喝酒后就无缘无故的打她,等酒醒后他知道自己做了什么又后悔,向她认错,他总说他再也不喝酒了,可是一到别人请他吃饭或应酬,他就逢酒必醉,醉了之后回家,就是她的世界末日,他打她一次比一次狠,有时竟然连刀子都动了,最严重的一次是打折了她的手臂,和两根肋骨。他也不明白自己为什么就是克制不了自己。 多次挨打后,她忍无可忍,强烈要求离婚,无论他怎么求她,她都不愿意在和他生活在一起,他每次打她时,他们的孩子就在旁边,孩子哭着喊: 爸爸,别打了, 可是他哪里听得进去,孩子越害怕越哭得凶他就越打得狠,孩子最后看见他这样虐待母亲,连哭都不敢哭,渐渐的变得不爱说话,性格也变得暴躁。 她离婚后,在网上写自己的心声和不幸,当她这件事说出来后,很多人不相信她,还以为她是捏造的事情,想为自己空间争人气,想成为网络红人,在她写的文章评语后说: 我觉得你这是自己撰写的,家和万事兴,一个事业有成的男士,家庭条件那么好,又那么优秀,那么疼爱妻子的男人怎么会做打老婆的事情出来呢? 世界上就有这样的人和事,你的幸福,并不能做为衡量别人幸福的标准,有些这样的男人,表面看起来真的很不错很正常,但是,他的心态却是畸形扭曲的,平时正常的时候能够压抑自己,但是在酒精的作用下,他内心就会将一些幻想激发出来,变成虐待狂,医学上有种病叫 自闭症 ,和这种现象很相似,但是有这样毛病的人就算知道自己有这种病,谁又会去坦坦荡荡的面对现实呢,尤其是爱面子的男人。 鞋子合不合脚,只有自己最清楚,夫妻好不好,外人不足为道,别对别人的事情与幸福乱下结论,有些离婚的人该劝其不离,有些劝其早点离婚是在解救别人的性命,看别人的幸福不要被表面现象所骗,你永远不懂别人的伤。 (五)只赢一分 斯若克球赛中,最后由她和他争夺冠亚军,比赛结束后,他以一分之差击败她而获得冠军。 她觉得他一直很奇怪,比赛中,先开始他总是遥遥领先,比赛比到一半时,他的分数比她高三十多分,眼见她输势以成定局,而他就在这个时候频频犯规,让她把比分从5分一直追到35分,和他仅仅只隔一分,于是,他开始很认真的开始和她打,他没有再失误和犯规过。 她随后也将比分仅仅跟着他,死咬他不放,但是到了后来,他还是赢了,只赢一分。他走出赛场门口 巧遇 到了她,她是故意在赛场门口等他的。 她问他: 我中途得的那几十分是你有意送的吗? 是, 他答。 为什么要送分给我,你不怕你会输吗? 她问。 不怕! 他斩钉截铁的说: 我一定会赢的。 要真输了呢? 她问。 不会,我有那个信心一定能赢你, 他说。 那你送给我那么多分干嘛? 她问: 你赢多点不好吗?也展现你实力。 只要赢了就够了,赢一分也是赢,赢了对手就可以证明我的实力 他说。 她站在风中看着他背影默默无语。 只要是赢,赢一分也是赢,其实,赢一分之中包含了多少君子风度,和人的内在修养及技术啊,赢的最高境界是什么,是只赢一分就够了。 (六)流言 恒与她是一个公司的,她和恒相爱时,因为工作需要,公司将她调到香港工作,一年后她被调回内地来工作时,恒身边已经有了月,那天提出分手时,恒约了她出来,带着月,两人手挽手的在一起,那一刻她心如刀绞,她只匆匆望了月一眼,也没注意月的样子就踉踉跄跄的回了家,而她的样子却被月记得清清楚楚。 为了忘记恒,她辞去了工作换了一家公司,她不停的埋头苦干,不到一个月,她就被提升为公司某部门的主管。在一次偶然的机会她邂逅了丈夫华,两人一见钟情闪电式的结婚了。婚后华很疼爱她,她早已将先前恒和月带给她的痛楚忘得一干二净。 这天,公司调了个女孩到她部门来上班,那女孩不是别人,正是月,而她此时就是月的顶头上司。月是个工作很积极的女孩,但是无论做什么事都很毛手毛脚,总在出错,她总是提醒月,有时干脆还批评月,月被她批评后不但不检讨自己,而且还总说那点问题没什么大不了的,她是个很较真的人,月出了问题她总要求月一定要改正,可是月却以为她对她还有记恨,她是有意在报复她。娇气的月到恒面前去诉苦,恒一气之下直接跑到她办公室门口找她谈。 我知道你还在恨我,所以老挑月的刺,想把气出在月身上 ,恒说。 她的确有错,错了就必须改正,你不要一味偏袒她,你护着她要看哪一方面 ,她说。 说来说去,你就是妒忌我对她好,你已经结婚了就要好好的过你自己的日子,别要老惦记你不该惦记的人和事 ,恒说。 听到这话她气得浑身发抖,她不想再和他说话,叫来保安 请 恒离开。 但是,她和恒吵架的事很快就传的沸沸扬扬的,很多人真的怀疑她惦记着恒,为了报复而欺负月。有的 好心人 甚至还劝她,结了婚就要安安稳稳的过日子,不要老惦记丈夫以外的人。她和别人解释,结果越解释别人越不信她的话,大有越描越黑之势。 她回家对丈夫说起这事,丈夫还没等她说完就对她说: 别说了,我知道,你爱的是我不是恒,你对月绝对没有欺负的心思,我会让月去证明给别人看的。 第二天,她去上班时月被调到别的部门去了,她知道这是丈夫华在暗地帮她。月去别的部门后又频频出错,最后公司干脆辞了月,谣言不攻自破。 在感情纠纷上遇到误会时,永远也不要向别人解释,因为一切的语言此时都显得苍白无力,最好的办法是保持沉默,因为,爱你的人会懂你,所以不需要,不爱你的人,也不想去懂你,所以不必要。 (七)错在自己 她刚刚来新部门,穿着时尚打扮亮丽的她,很快赢得了部门主管的好感,她工作很认真很勤奋,部门的同事都对她很有好感。 主管工作闲暇之余老到她办公桌面和她说话,套近乎,她总是很小心毕恭毕敬的应付着主管的问话,主管看她那样,总对她说, 你不要这样客气,随意一点好。 每次,当她完成一件事情后,主管总在部门里表扬她给她发红包,有时她在工作中出了错,主管总会站出来替她把问题解决,在遇到她和部门同事同时犯一样错误时,主管总是批评别人,而从来不说她半句不是,她也从主管眼中读出了他对她的暧昧,主管总让她喊他华哥,她先开始觉得很别扭,可是后来喊习惯了,她也渐渐喜欢这样称呼他起来,她觉得这种叫法很亲切。 她开始变了,工作上她变的懒惰,不认真,老是出错,但是同事们没人敢说她半句,因为主管护着她,她的穿着打扮也越来越离谱,同事们背后议论纷纷,但是主管总私下里夸她,说她打扮得惊艳漂亮。 她渐渐的在同事之间变得骄横跋扈,她总是故意欺负着其它的同事,但是没有人敢说她半句,因为,整个部门都是女人,就主管一个人是男人,什么事情主管说了算,凡是她看不顺眼的人,主管也会看不顺眼,还要千方百计的给小鞋别人穿,于是,部门里所有同事都怕她,都记恨她,对她敬而远之,悄悄的在她背后议论,说她是被主管宠坏了的女人。 可是,好景不长,这位主管在其四十岁的那天突然出车祸死了。 她的靠山倒了,不过不要紧,同事们都说,她有张漂亮的脸,她可以靠那张漂亮的脸赢得新主管的好感与关爱。 新的部门总管上任了,令大家感到惊异的是,新主管是位女士,这位女士以前曾经在她们部门工作,因为得罪了她,和她有矛盾,被老主管调走的那位,山不转水转,这位女士回到这部门里,首先就是拿她开刀。如是,部门同事纷纷在新主管面前指责她的不是,从新主管来后,她的日子就一直不好过,她恨透了他的那些同事,总认为别人看不惯她,不喜欢她排挤她。 如果一个人在周围的环境中没有一个人喜欢你,你和谁都和不来,那么就不是别人的问题了,错在你而不在别人,每个人只看到别人给自己受的委屈,却从来不去想一想,自己曾经带给别人怎样的伤害。 (八)亲恩 一个多星期没有去看母亲了,中午,他正在睡觉的时后,母亲突然打电话来给他,问他在做什么,他不耐烦的告诉母亲,他在睡觉,昨晚上上了夜班,很困。 母亲听到这话,只好叹口气说: 那你睡吧。 他的孩子在读初中,学校离母亲那很近,每天中午孩子总被他母亲接到母亲家里去吃饭,晚上他如果在家里就由他接到自己家去吃饭。 他是母亲唯一的孩子,从小母亲就特别疼爱他,他结婚后他一心想离开母亲到外面去住,母亲不让,他不顾母亲的反对还是搬出了家,他在母亲面前,从来就不是很乖的。以前孩子小的时候,母亲身体还硬朗,帮他把孩子带到上小学六年级,现在孩子读初中了,母亲的身体也不如以前了,但是,中午他还是让孩子到母亲家里去吃饭。 晚上,儿子放学了,他开着车去把儿子接回家,儿子回家后他做饭,儿子就开始做作业起来了。儿子做完作业,他的饭熟了,坐在桌前吃饭他发现儿子今天好像不对劲,仔细一看,儿子的手背上不知怎么搞的有个很大的水泡。 这是怎么搞的,儿子 他问儿子。 烫的呗, 儿子说。 怎么烫的? 他又问儿子。 中午在奶奶那烧鱼给烫的, 儿子答到。 奶奶让你烧鱼? 他听这话气不打一处来,心里在暗暗的怪母亲,儿子只有十二岁,这么点小孩子就让他学做饭。一旁的妻子看到了也添油加醋的说着, 你妈真狠的心,看把孩子手烫成什么样了。 他开始准备打电话給母亲。 儿子看他拿手机就知道他要干什么,连忙对他和妻子说: 爸爸妈妈你们别这样,奶奶的腰摔伤了,奶奶知道你们爱吃晒干的腌肉,特地给你们去制作了一些,那天叫你去拿的时候,你在家睡午觉,她准备送过来,谁知在路上一不小心滑了一跤,摔伤了腰,这几天我过去,一直在帮奶奶做饭。 听到这里他两口子哑口无言了,吃完饭,妻子收拾东西,对他说, 走,我们都搬过去,去照顾妈去。 每个人作为父母的时候,在疼爱自己的孩子时,总是忘了,其实他也是父母的孩子,父母也同样像他这样疼爱自己的孩子。 在这个世界上有一个人永远的为你无私的付出,这个人就是你的母亲,世界上有一个人能够永远的原谅你的不懂事,这个人就是你的母亲。 赞 (散文编辑:江南风) 我家微信时代的年三十

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