Today is our wedding anniversary, which is the seven-year itch and the seventh anniversary as everyone says. I have been worried about this issue since I got married, because everyone is saying that it is really inappropriate to know it through seven years, some people have ended the happiness of their choice in less than seven years. I have been worried for seven years, struggling for seven years and looking forward to seven years. Now I finally expect it. There is no worry, no entanglement, and more touching and understanding. Both of our families are very ordinary. Neither of our families is rich nor well-educated. In this way, our marriage is said to be well-matched and suitable. Marriage is not that a woman marries a man, or a man marries a woman to go home. This is just the preface of marriage, and it has not really entered the rich and colorful content of marriage. Marriage needs the operation of two people marriage needs the tolerance of two people marriage needs the communication of two people marriage needs the respect of two people marriage needs the gratitude of two people summary one sentence marriage needs the heart of two people. Marriage, especially for a woman, is not only to marry the man you love, but also the habit of marrying this person, to adapt to his life, adapt to some good and bad habits of himself. What you want to marry is his family, which is the key point to maintain family harmony on the basis of two people’s love. It is relatively happy to marry the man you love, and at the same time, it is relatively happy to marry his habitual marriage. If you can marry his family together, then the so-called itching of seven places will no longer exist. There is a saying that a happy marriage requires three marriages. The first time is to walk into the Palace of expectation with the people you love in the blessings of relatives and friends; The second time is to stay at home, after several years of grinding, two people get married with each other’s living habits; The third time is to get married with each other’s family. There was no grand wedding or anyone’s blessing for the second and third marriages. The only thing they had was the tacit understanding between them. A real marriage must have a second and third wedding without ceremony. If there is no second and third wedding, maybe the legendary seven-year itch will really appear. Our partner not only belongs to us, but also belongs to his family and friends. Isn’t there a saying: love is like sand in hand, and the tighter it is, the faster the loss is, so I learned to put my hands aside and leave a little space for the other party to allow the other party to have their own secrets in their hearts. Life is like a cup of tea. It will not suffer for a lifetime, but it will always suffer for a while. Life is not smooth, there will always be a very difficult period of time. During this period of time, we must communicate and tell each other what we think in our hearts. Happiness between husband and wife does not have to be shared together, we must bear the sufferings together, or if we have our own worries, problems may occur in marriage. Don’t see one person and love one person. If you love too much, love will depreciate. Sometimes it doesn’t matter that not every word of sorry can be exchanged for the other person’s sentence. Give love only to that person, then your love is priceless. Romance is a beautiful evening gown. Although it is beautiful, it cannot be worn every day. Marriage is different from love. Love can have surprises anytime and anywhere. Marriage is more of a plain life, but don’t forget your evening gown. You can’t wear it every day, but you should take it out regularly to try, this is to live a wonderful life without salt or light. Love is always more holy than marriage, and marriage is always more affordable than love. When I am in love, I always say that I love you. Maybe I seldom hear this sentence when I get married. Don’t be unhappy. Sometimes speaking doesn’t mean forgetting, but remembering it in my heart. You should know how to cherish it better! In fact, after seven years of marriage, I really have a lot of feelings. Marriage is not as beautiful as in fairy tales, nor as touching as on TV, the other side is not the Prince white horse and Snow White as you imagine, but just plain. But he will give you a home, a happy and warm home, and a real life. This is marriage. The beauty of life is not as beautiful as that of life, which makes our life and marriage beautiful. Don’t believe in life! Dedicate this paragraph to yourself, hoping that your marriage life will be happier. More to all, happy friends will be happier, unhappy friends will be happier!

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The trip to Hainan was my first trip. A holiday one month in advance. I was so excited at the beginning, and also had all kinds of expectations. I was very happy. But the days are approaching, but there is not much desire left. No matter how much enthusiasm there is, there will be time to run out. I also have to re-examine my heart that has been restless and wants to leave. How firm and permanent can it be? However, before the result came out, I had already set out towards the sea. I feel it’s OK in my heart, just walk. I got off the plane in the early morning. Stepping on the land of Hainan, there is no more strange. I just feel that the night is quieter than the city where I work, the air is wetter, and there is a sense of coolness belonging to the night. I forgot whether there were stars in the sky. I reported my dad safe at the airport gate and hurried to the nearby hotel. Because the distance was too close, the drivers who lined up on the airport were not willing to take it. Later, the old watch estimated that it was in the middle of the night, but it was not good to leave a bad eye for others, so he offered a high price. At that moment, I finally felt that I was in a strange land. At dawn, the old watch woke up earlier, exclaiming the beautiful red sun outside the window. I looked out with my heavy body in hand, and the chill of the morning came to my face. The vision is very broad, like the morning in the countryside, and the red sun seems to be really brighter. Simply pack up and then go on to the bullet train to Sanya. Walking on the road, the morning dew accidentally wet the feet. Covered on the grass leaves, the dew on the iron fan tree made me feel like I was in my hometown again. When I was a child, I also ran back and forth in the fields covered with mist, listening to the rooster’s crowing and watching the smoke rising slowly from the chimney. I even doubted whether the tranquil landscape I wanted to find was the hometown in my memory? Standing on the street of Sanya, the streetscape is mostly tropical plants, which is not much different from the city I live in. The bus is more like a rural bus, which goes with the stop without a stop sign. I was like a traveller forgotten by time and scenery, and the joy of any traveller walking on the road was not given to me. A little lost. What is the trip I am looking forward? What is the meaning of the trip I am looking? Why do you insist on living elsewhere? Am I confused or magnified something? Standing on the coast, under the scorching sun, blowing the sea breeze, looking at the blue sea like a mirror, I can’t imagine the surging underneath. The magnificence and beauty of the water Sky are incredible, but there is no more understanding. It is not as big as the universe, and its own tiny grand theory. At that moment, in addition to loss, I even felt vulgar. The recognition of life is more real to me, about food, clothing, transportation. I also bought it with money to relax my vigilance towards time in such a beautiful scenery. So, is all this really necessary? I happened to watch a variety show yesterday and felt that I had gained something. Yijiabinte house, like to be alone, you can leisurely and freely do whatever you want. I don’t even like traveling. He said that the mood of loving the sea would be destroyed by people on the beach in five minutes. Therefore, he prefers to visit places of interest online. The sea is a person’s sea; The sky is a person’s blue sky; White clouds are a person’s white clouds; Sunshine is a person’s sunshine. What is magical is, he felt more pleasure, better and better than being on the scene. I suddenly realized that the greater significance of persistent running away is spiritual travel. Running away is not because of the scenery you haven’t met, but because of the heart you haven’t been quiet. What you want is not where you are, but where your heart is. You don’t have to go far away when traveling alone. As long as your heart starts to be quiet, you start to stay away from the hustle and bustle, and you start to slow down your pursuit of time, so many beautiful scenery will naturally come to negotiate with you. One day, if you find that the pace of life in the city has been controlled by you, mistakes in work will not tighten your life any more. Maybe, you don’t have to go further any more, thinking about wandering for a longer time. Because, every place in your heart has scenery. And going to any other city will only be your reward for yourself. Reward you, let time wear and leave, you grow old leisurely with time

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