It’s the weekend again, because the school will be the examination room for civil servant examination and interview tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, so today all students do not study at night. At dinner, my son told me: Mom, I don’t want to do my homework any more. Don’t want to do homework, what do you want to do? My son didn’t say anything when he heard my question. There is still more than one month left, and you have to try your best to Sprint. I said, it’s not playing games to pass the high school exam well. If you can reach the score, we will save tens of thousands of yuan. But if you pass the exam a little less, the school will not accept it even if you hold a lot of money, at that time, you felt uncomfortable. If you are admitted to the northern suburb, we will buy a car. Buy a car? My son looked at me doubtfully. Yeah! Don’t you envy others who have cars? It is convenient to catch a bus every day if you own a car! The bowl and chopsticks were still on the table. I asked my son: Do you think there is any hope for the examination in the northern suburb now? Great position. My son’s voice was very loud, and his face showed a steady victory. I remember I asked him before the model, what if he couldn’t pass the northern suburb? At that time, he said: there is no possibility of failing to pass the exam. Looking at him leaning against the bed, I said to him: Today I asked your teacher how did you perform at school. The head teacher said that you are doing well in all aspects. If the teacher thinks so highly of you, then you should also have a requirement for yourself to do better. I said, the northern suburb was our initial goal, and now we should aim at No. 1 Middle School. The management of No. 1 Middle School is strict, and the school facilities are much better than those in the northern suburb. I saw my son showing a look of yearning. It turned out that you and Xi Xi were in the same school when they were in high school. I mentioned the past. Last time when the provincial middle school, No. 1 Middle School and northern suburb recruited independently, the head teacher of Xixi asked Xixi to apply for the provincial middle school, but Xixi only wanted to go to No. 1 Middle School. This is what grandma Xi said in our house. Why? Son Asked. It is said that the provincial management is broad and not as strict as that of the first middle school. For students with high consciousness, the provincial management has relatively potential for development, but for students who are not self-conscious, it will not work, or one solid. If you can really enter No. 1 Middle School, you will be happy with 100,000 points. There was a smile on my son’s face, and his eyes were very glorious. This was the most impressive time to see him since he was in high school. This semester, due to the good diet every day, my son’s face is rosy and he has gained a lot of weight. With his height of 1.8 meters, he looks really handsome. Looking at my son’s handsome face, I recalled the scene when he was born. I remember that doctor Huang said he was a beautiful baby and brought her grandson to see him. I couldn’t help saying: Chen Fei, how handsome! Go, Go, go, Mom, you are so annoying! My son waved to me. You need to read others’ full-Mark compositions in Chinese. Only by writing the compositions well can you improve. 16 points will be deducted for a model composition. For example, it will be enough for you to deduct 8 points at most in your composition, which will raise your Chinese scores a lot. English only needs to memorize words, phrases and sentence patterns skillfully, and it must take more time. I never forget to remind my son. Well, my son said yes. Today, I really learned about my son’s study in school from the head teacher, but the head teacher didn’t really say that his son is good in all aspects. Just reply OK. I haven’t known the situation with the teacher since the first model. Sometimes I will see the head teacher when I pick up my son after the night self-study, but the time is too late. The teachers in the graduating class were busy and laborious enough, so it was inconvenient to delay the teacher’s rest time, so they just said hello. I remember such a story, and I have told it to students many times: When my son was in kindergarten, it was the first time that my mother went to hold a parent-teacher meeting. The teacher said to my mother, “Your son has hyperactivity, so he can’t stay in the position for a minute with so many students in the whole class. Mother went home with tears all the way, and said to her son: today the teacher praised you, saying that you can sit in the seat for three minutes now. My son was very good at dinner that day. From primary school to junior high school, every time a parent-teacher meeting is held, the son’s name is always pointed by the teacher among the last few students in the class. And every time after the parent-teacher meeting, mother always said to her son: Today, the teacher praised you again, saying that you are better than someone in the class. My son also studied hard with the encouragement of his mother. After entering a parent-teacher meeting in grade 3, my mother had been waiting for the teacher to report her son’s name, but she didn’t hear her son’s name until the meeting was over. Mother thought that the teacher missed his son’s name, so she went to ask the teacher. The teacher said, “with your son’s current grades, there is no problem to take an ordinary high school. After hearing this, my mother was very happy and came back and said to her son: The teacher said, with your current grades, as long as you work harder, it will be no problem to take the key high school. After entering high school, my son studied harder. My mother had a strong feeling that his son could get a good university. At last, my son got the admission notice from Tsinghua University. My son cried, Mom. I knew I was stupid. It was you who encouraged me all the time that made me achieve today’s results. Everyone needs to be recognized by others, and children are no exception. Once an expert said: you need to find out ten to twenty advantages of children every day. Parents who cannot find out the advantages of children are not good parents. We hope that children will develop in a good direction, and what parents say will have directivity. If you often say to the child that he is stupid and lazy, after a long time, the clever and diligent child will become stupid and lazy. Because in children’s eyes, even if you do well, you will be criticized. It is better not to do it. As time passes, it will become what you said. There is an example like this: a little boy behaves well in his grandmother’s house, is obedient and loves cleanness, but in his own home, he becomes totally different, dirty, naughty and swearing. The reason was that when I came to grandma’s house, Grandma always praised him as such a sensible and clever child. I always said that I couldn’t find such a good child, so how could I dislike him? So he behaved well in his grandmother’s house. However, when she came back to her home, Grandma always accused him of this bad, that bad, saying that she had never seen such a bad child like him, so that he behaved quite annoying at home. Therefore, if you want your children to be good, as parents, you should encourage them to be good. I remember that there was an experiment: Scientists randomly pointed at some students in a school and said to them: you people are all promising in the future. I also told the teachers that what an excellent teacher you are, and what an excellent student you are. Since then, those students and teachers have been imagining how excellent they are, and they have been strict with themselves no matter what they do. Many years later, these students have been outstanding one by one. Back to those years, these students and teachers designated by scientists were just random. After understanding, some students were even considered as poor students by teachers before. All this shows that positive encouragement is very important. My son still said: Mom, I don’t want to do my homework anymore. I looked at the time, and just after, I said: do not do homework so early, do you want to leave all your homework until tomorrow? I am so busy tomorrow. I always came to accompany you, at least you have to live up to me? At least it should be like self-study at school! My son stopped talking and took out his homework and started to do it. Because he already had a clear goal in his heart.

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Friends, what is friends? Do anything. The explanation is funny. If you travel alone, you will suddenly get an unexpected surprise. Looking forward to sharing with others, you will jump out of your heart and a slight smile will fill your ears. This kind of friendship will not make you enchanted. Houpu, innocent and silently listened to your innocent thoughts, even the unspeakable things in your mind. If you meet such friends, how can you regret your life! Friends, when they are in trouble, feel warm when they think of it. In this world, in the virtual world, in the distant and near world, at the beginning, I was like a headless fly bumping everywhere. To be exact, I was more like a mosquito, to find a pulse of gurgling plasma, blood that suits my taste. Every time I enter a space, I draw nourishment from it to strengthen my soul with the attitude of a student. Fortunately, there was a volcano, and the incisive argument on the outlook on life, such as the cold front Huo Huo piercing the soul; There were some articles with petty bourgeoisie sentiment, such as the wind blowing over me, a pool of peaceful and gentle Heart Lake. My narrow-minded cognition expanded my ignorant and frivolous mind in this strange world. This strange world, like Buddha singing, knocked on my stubborn mind. I ran into my first Q friend, who is also a teacher and friend. I call her teacher. She is a Q friend who understands language and a teacher who is good at seduction. This is the luck I have picked up in this virtual world. It was destined to meet the teacher. In the teacher’s witty explanation, I had a further understanding of prose and its liberal arts. I was interested in typing words, and I was curious about the five-stroke patchwork method. At first, I thought the five strokes of computer and mobile phone were the same. After trying it, I realized that it was totally different. I asked several people about the operation method of five strokes. They shook their heads and replied to me that five strokes were difficult to understand. When I first played with computers, I asked people to know that browsers were used to open web pages. Then I had to open web pages and double-click the mouse. This was my initial understanding of the functions of computers, and that was all. Other reasons were integrated from the way of cellphone surfing the Internet. Without the guidance of famous teachers, I began to rush to the Internet recklessly, which made people big and wonderful computer functions, I am very interested but have no idea where to learn from. With a little bit of function, I was as happy as a playful child when I got a novel plaything. I searched the five-stroke character list from Baidu, analyzed it carefully and got to know the structure of the five-stroke character. The operation method of the five-stroke character was originally like children splicing building blocks. I memorized the formula silently for several hours, I remembered the general position of the radical and started the game of piecing together words. Later I found that the simpler the word steps, the more complicated it was. At the beginning of the new year, I am knocked at random. I wanted to knock whatever I wanted. Later, I wanted to knock a poem of Tang Dynasty. Then I came up with another idea. Write a diary, my thoughts and thoughts, in this way, I put my random diary in my QQ space. At the beginning, I just thought it was funny. I didn’t understand what kind of carrier the article I wrote was nonsense. I read it by myself and the sentence was fluent. As for whether the content of the article is as shocking as a stone or as deep as the sea, it is verified that what is blowing is just a mess of wind, and my thoughts are also like wind. Isn’t the description of wind from the mouth? Amorous was jing you xin sheng. According to his description of people, I won’t say whether this person is good or bad, because I know that there is another hidden feeling behind the surface. According to the character of a person, there must be a fragile side under his grandiloquence. Cowardice action must contain amazing iron bones, and ordinary life can often deduce legends. The legendary story is not a description of an ordinary person. The compelling thought is that the water shines through thousands of layers of waves, which happens to have a huge stone hovering in the center of the turbulent river; The thought that makes people feel broken is a rock reef under the gentle waters, it is the slow and peaceful surface, but what is surging in the dark is the horrifying waves! Give light to the gloomy heart. Fierce friendship is like liquor, and its taste must be tasted by yourself. It is the dark mellow fragrance! Isn’t it just like a rock reef under the gentle waters, a plain greeting, and the dark surge contained in it is incomparable care. A good friend is a ray of bright sunshine, which is the thought of a good teacher and friend. It lights you, warms you, and even loses its direction. I am broke into the teacher’s space because of an article. The content of the article was blurred after more than a year. Also because of my reckless intrusion, I had a good chance. I had my first Q friend. She is a good teacher and a good friend. My article has been improved. Thanks to Teacher Q’s guidance, I have a preliminary understanding of prose. The teacher read the diary I left in QQ space and left me a message: your writing is very good, why don’t you publish your prose online? I replied: I don’t have the courage to publish it. The teacher asked me again: lack of confidence? In the past, I AM wrote down things at will without thinking about this aspect at all, and had to publish them. After reading the teacher’s question, do I really lack confidence? After thinking about this question for a long time, I suddenly realized that I really can’t say that I lack confidence in literature, but that I have no confidence at all. Every time I read an article, I read the masterpieces of those teachers with the attitude of a student. But the teacher said to me: you should read those articles with the attitude of the author. I understand what the teacher said. Only by interpreting each article with a plain attitude can thoughts better discard dross and get the essence, in this way, we can not be controlled by the thoughts of other authors, and our own thoughts can avoid being imprisoned by other authors. A good teacher! Let me meet, I am really blessed! Reading the teacher’s prose, I feel that she is kind and nostalgic. She is a good mother and a good daughter at the same time. I read a prose written by my teacher in memory of my father, in which the warmth of father’s love leaped between the lines with a kind and wise elder. My daughter’s deep yearning and sentimental love permeate the full text. I read it to touch the warmth of father’s kindness and filial piety, and sigh the unpredictable changes of the world! Later, I learned that there was something wrong with the teacher’s body. During the conversation, I could feel a calm and strong heart hidden in her soft surface. I hope you have a sunny mood. This is a message from the teacher’s diary in my space, which is sent to the teacher for mutual encouragement. Friends at the other end of the screen, friends who are also teachers and friends, the chances of life are actually like the change of four seasons. The unexpected encounter in winter is exactly the fetal movement in spring. Let go of your heart, the colorful spring is for you. Send a message to my friend, if your heart is peaceful, it is happiness! 2013.3.28

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