When autumn comes, those crickets which are annoying and annoying and make people unable to sleep in the tired midnight seem to remember the wrong time in broad daylight and slowly crawl around the corner of the house, it is like trying hard to find the lost season. You can’t find its hiding place any more if you can’t hate insects like this, which can be pulled out from the corners and corners in the summer night, but now it is so easy to kill it, and it is at your fingertips. But when looking at its stiff feet crawling hard, it seemed to be very hard and helpless, so it suddenly left the deep hatred and hatred in the heat behind its head. Pitiful, even more, I couldn’t bear to buy it on a little thing that had no resistance. Years, the butcher, had begun to reach it quietly. Is this to raise insects? It is a great thing to shoot out a worm from time to time in the room where I live, but what can I do? I don’t want to see a dead body lying on the ground, I was reluctant to turn myself into a killer, disgusting and cruel. Let it live or die in the laws of nature. The most shameful and pitiful look, even if it was so arrogant at the beginning. The weak are always easy to be forgiven, and easy to make people feel sympathy. All the persistence will collapse in front of the weak, and no one will hurt the nearly dying things. Because that road had come to an end, why couldn’t wait to send another ride. This is my weakness. People who know it will eat me. There is a definite number among all the ghosts. There is no permanent strong, and naturally there will be no permanent weak. You see, this worm is also very rampant in summer. But when the four seasons change and the time changes, no one can predict where he will go. Don’t be arrogant when you are proud, and leave a little room to turn around; Don’t be arrogant or give up when you are lost, and leave a little confidence to wait for the dawn. Look at those annoying insects, they come out to make waves as soon as the weather gets warm, and they endure everything after the weather gets cold, just to avoid the Devils of the cold. They will restrain their movements when they lose power, hide in places that people can’t see, or preserve their health or die quietly. However, once the next year was shocked, there would be insects, but I didn’t know it was still not the original one. The infinite march of life, whether you give up or not, will carry you forward. Why do we have to worry about the world? Put it down to move forward more easily. Immersed in yesterday’s confusion, you can’t feel the happiness that happened today. Look at that cricket that loves singing, humming a melody carefree in the warm midnight, not longing for tomorrow, don’t miss the past, just take care of the mood at this moment. Disappear when the cold is approaching, pick up the tail and make a worm, wait and brew in silence, maybe one day in the next year, sing a graceful song of life,,,,,,

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2000年的7月7日,我通过朋友的情人节聚会见了他。因为当时我也是单身,我老妈老说你都二十五六岁了连个对象都没有,人家和你年龄一样的都有孩子了,就因为这个我多看了他一眼,这个人看上起相貌不错,性格也还好,所以也就想进一步发展,通过朋友我得知他对我也有点意思。所以,我们就正式交往了,从交往到结婚也就一年多吧!2002年的2月14日,也就是人们所谓的情人节我们结婚了。 婚后的日子刚刚开始还是不错的,每天开开心心的,后来一个朋友说你老公在家里闲这不去做事,你们现在有点存款还好,等存款花完了怎么办。我回家后想了很久,到了晚上给他商量了一下,就让他去我哥哥的公司去上班了,因为我哥哥的公司在我们家的镇里。所以,我们必须分开,因为我在家里有份很不错的工作,收入也不错,不想放弃。大家都知道的,新婚夫妻吗?难免会分不开。因为我哥哥公司也离家里不是很远,坐车也就2个小时,所以他经常回家来,第二天又走了,就这样来来回回十几次,但是我发现了一个问题,每次我们那个完了之后,第二天一早人走了,我的梳妆台上多了200元钱,而且每次都是200元,不那个的时候就没有。这个我很是不明白,我每次都会给他打电话问,他总是一样的说法,你拿钱买点衣服和零食。我在上班我有钱,再说了你要留就多留点,200元都不够我一件衣服的,他还说多了不就有了吗? 婆婆是个很体贴的妈妈,老是问我: 玲 啊! 今天想吃什么饭啊!今天累不累啊! 有时候问的我都不知道怎么回答了。我的亲妈妈都不会问的这么仔细,我能看出来,婆婆的这种关心不是假的,他家就他这么一个儿子,所以他妈妈是把我当成她的亲女儿对待,我老爸老是给我说: 要孝顺老人 所以,我老是给她买些好的衣服鞋子,家里东西都是我买,每次给婆婆买衣服她都会说不要给我买这么好的,年纪大了穿再好的也不好看,我就不相信。 我婆婆一个人把我老公养大不容易,你们肯定要问了,那你老公的爸爸呢?其实我也不知道很多内情,只是简单的听他说过,他爸爸在他5岁的时候就在外面和别的女人组建了家庭。所以,说白了就是不要他们娘俩了。这样的男人不要也罢!她妈妈赌起志气一个人把他养大,她是离婚不离家。在村里也是出了名的好心眼。 他家里没有我们家里的条件好,但是我的家里人就是看着小伙子不错,妈妈又是出了名的好心眼,所以不会亏待我的。我爸爸没有看错人。婆婆确实对我很好。而且不是一般的好。 他爸爸有时候会回来看看我们,但是每次都被婆婆给赶走,我曾经劝过我婆婆说: 可能是年纪大了知道儿子的重要了,也知道家才是最好的。你就让他回来吃顿饭吧! 可是我说的没有用,她还是不原谅他,有时她都会发脾气,婆婆从来不会对我发脾气。但是,只要我说这个她都会发脾气。所以我后来都没有提过。他爸爸还偷偷找过我。我也告诉他我无能为力。 老公还是一如既往的回家。还是200元钱放在我的梳妆台上,我很困惑。可是我又不敢跟我的好姐们说。就这样一直困惑着,一直忍耐着。直到有一天终于爆发了。 因为我看见他和一个女人的聊天记录很暧昧。所以我受不了了,我就问他,他却给我说只是聊聊而已。我就火气大了,那你跟我结婚也是玩玩而已吗?他说不是,我就问他,那我们每次那个了之后你都会留下200块钱,没有那个了话你就不留。你当我是妓女啊!我就值200块啊!我给你付出青春呢?你付的起吗?我问的他说不出话来,他看我真的发火了就想走,我一把就把他拉过来,瞪着他的眼不说话,那是我们第一次吵架,竟然是这么凶。我的火压抑了好久。 婆婆可能听见了我们在吵架就过来了,老公还没有反应过来,婆婆上来就给了他一巴掌。老公坐在那里不说话,他也没有反抗。我见婆婆来了后委屈的趴在她怀里哭了,婆婆没有说话,一直拍着我的肩膀。晚上婆婆让他去了她屋里睡去了,婆婆陪我睡的。我慢慢给他讲起了我和他吵架的原因。婆婆听了之后眼里泪强忍住说: 孩子委屈你了,你可能不知道,这个孩子从小我就教育他,借的东西要换的,咱们不要亏欠别人的,孩子,都是妈的错。妈没有告诉他老婆不是外人。 我听了最后一句我忍不住了说: 妈,老婆不是外人还用你教他吗?他难道不知道吗?他不是小孩子了,你不用拦责任。我觉的他可能是外面有人了,他和别的女人在QQ上的聊天记录我看到了,很暧昧,妈,我觉的我没有过分的地方,为什么他会这么快不爱我。 婆婆说: 他敢,我打断他的腿,我有时间找他问问如果真有,我会让他跪下来给你磕头赔罪,我们家三生修来的福气,能娶到你这么好的媳妇。他如果敢在外面找女人,我会让他后悔。 我听到这样的话心里总算有了安慰。婆婆说: 孩子睡觉吧!有什么事别忘心里去,妈会给你做主的,明天还上班,眼睛哭肿了就不美了。 就这样在婆婆的怀里睡着了。 第二天早上我被公鸡的打鸣声吵醒了,我出去上厕所时听见婆婆跟我老公说: 儿子,疼不疼啊!妈妈不是想打你,妈妈看玲哭的这么伤心肯定是你气他了,妈妈也没有问什么原因就打了你,对不起啊! 老公说 妈,不疼。早就不疼了,是我不好,我不该和别的女人瞎聊天,我就是闲的无聊,没有别的。以后不聊了。等发了工资给老婆换个手机,老婆给你和我都舍得花钱就是不舍得换个好手机 婆婆说: 这就对了,这么好的老婆哪里找去,这么孝顺妈妈,这么疼你爱你,她生气是因为他心里有你,她如果不管你你就害怕老。 嗯!妈,我以后一定要加倍疼老婆。 之后他来给我道了歉,我也不是得理不饶人的人,况且人都有犯错的时候。所以,我就原谅了他,我们是生活恢复了平静,还是每天我上下班,他时不时的回来,不过我发现了个问题,每次那个了之后他不给我留钱了,而是每个月把他所有的工资打到我的卡里,都不给我说。 因为他上班的地方是我哥哥的公司,我哥哥问我我才知道是他打的,我刚开始还以为是谁打错了呢?他把他的工资卡绑定了我的这张卡。所以我哥哥就问了我。 我哥哥一直对他有成见,他老是觉的他配不上我,而且家庭条件又不好,我爸妈从来都不这么认为。我也是。我觉的不是每一个人一生下来就很有钱的,没有钱的人暂多数,他有一股勇往直前的精神,我们还怕富不起来吗?我哥哥有时候还跟我说他很用功,那我就放心了。就这样我们一个月二个人加起来大概二万块的工资,时不时的的他还有点奖金,我们一年下来也有二十几万了,我老公给我商量了一下说想买个车,家里房子不错,就差一个车。他说这样他来回跑就方便了,我就答应了。买了车之后我想到的第一件事是我要带婆婆去旅游,因为我有驾驶证,我们公司统一交钱学到,我们家里也有车,我结婚的时候爸爸说我给我陪嫁一辆车,我没要,我让他把钱存起来说是给他以后的外孙的。况且我们上下班都有公司里车接送的。买了车之后他回来的次数越来越多了,我也学会了做很多菜。我每次等他回来都做给他吃,每次都夸我。不是很多人在说吗?想留住老公的心,就得先留住老公的胃,我是职业女性兼家庭妇女。再说了婆婆老是做给我吃我也心疼,就这样平静过了好久。 有一天,他休息,戴我去玩。在车我发现了一条女人的内裤。我没有问他,我把内裤带回家,因为那条内裤很独特我网上查了一下,就一个内裤就300多,我的心里在打鼓,我在想就算他真的外面有女人也不会愚蠢到把女人内裤落在车里吧!我在想别的原因,我网上面定了一个一模一样的,等他回来。我穿上那个一样的,如果真的是别的女人的话,我想他看到会很吃惊。 他回来了,我特意穿上了那个,但是他说,哎老婆你这个我怎么没有见过啊!这么好看,可是我看他没有心虚的感觉啊!我还特意问了句你没有见过吗?我们上次在车里那个时我穿的。我还把它落你车里了,我在家里都找疯了,花了好多钱买的。你们都想不到他怎么说的: 噢!我想起来了,你看看你这个脑子,我也是的我怎么就没有发现呢?我昨傍晚刚洗的车啊!洗车的人没有看见吧!让人家看见就补好了。 从他的口气里我听的出来他根本不知道那个女人的内裤落下的事。我决定了我不动声色的要看看怎么回事,于是我请了半月的假,给家里人说公司派我去考察项目,我去了哥哥家,他不知道。临走时婆婆还嘱咐我好好吃饭不要熬夜!我亲爱的婆婆,为了不失去家庭不失去你我只能骗你了。对不起!!! 我开始了第一天的跟踪,我哥的司机带我,那个司机很怕我,因为他一直暗恋我,呵呵!我还特意去做了头发,买了衣服,我怕他看到我的衣服,因为他知道我每一件衣服。 第一天上去他很安静的在公司上班,中午去了咖啡馆,下午又去上班。下班了,我跟着他一直来到一间公寓,他停下来,只见下来了一个很妩媚的女人说: 嗨!亲爱的,你来的真准时, 我老公没有说什么,就让那个女人上了车,听到这些话我心里就像刀子捅了一样,泪不停的留,我不敢相信,就见我哥的司机在拍照,我想拦住他。但是我哭的已经说不了话。 女人上了车,他把车开走了。看见我们辛苦挣钱买的车却被别的女人做我的心痛死了,我们跟在后面,一路我眼泪都在流。见他进了一家高级餐厅,我们也进去了,做在他的背后。听见他们说: 老公,等宝宝出生了你怎么办。 我当时以为我认错老公了呢?叫的比我都亲热,我哥的司机起身要打他,可我把他拦住了,脑子里回响,她怀孕了。我脑子嗡的一下。控制控制,我控制着自己。司机过来抱抱我。我真的需要肩膀了。他们要走了,我们慌慌张张的也起身走了。他们又回到了公寓,这次进去就没有回来。直到天亮要上班了,我在车里睡了一夜。起来腰酸背痛的。等他上班了我就回我哥哥家了,嫂子听说了后要去见见那个女的。我拦住了,说: 嫂子不急,也许有隐情呢? 嫂子说 去休息吧!等会带你放松一下去, 嗯,我上去了嫂子 我睡了一觉,下楼来我哥哥在,看他的样子应该知道了,抱住我, 不怕有哥在,不会让你受半点委屈 我知道我哥哥肯定要去找他,我说 哥,妹不是小孩子了,你让我自己处理好吗?我想把事情搞清楚再说 可是 我堵住了他的嘴巴, 没有可是,现在你不能动他,我说什么就是什么 好好好,暂时听你,不动他。 嫂子说: 走。玲咱们去逛街, 就这样我被嫂子拉出了家门,来到商场我吐了好几次,我嫂子一直在看我,我有点讶异: 嫂子你看我干什么啊! 嫂子说: 你这样多久了, 我说: 有一个礼拜了吧! 哈哈哈,走去药店 之后买了个验孕棒给我,说去试下,结果出来了,我很吃惊,怀孕了,我都不知道是该高兴呢还是该难过呢? 嫂子高兴的拉着我又返回了商场,直奔孕婴专柜。不巧的是,他也在,还是和那个女人,我拉着嫂子就往回跑。他扶着那个女人,嫂子也看见了, 不走,我去会会那个女人。 我自己躲在柱子后面,我没有拦住,正好我老公去交钱了.嫂子就直奔那女人去了。 哎呀!你走路不长眼啊! 嫂子说: 你才不长眼呢.想死啊! 就听那女人喊: 快点来啊!我被臭女人撞了. 嫂子一听立马就是一巴掌上去了,等他走过了了,那女人已经被我嫂子打的蹲下了。他过来了,刚要说话,一看是我嫂子脸都变色了: 嫂..嫂子,怎么是你啊!你怎么来这里啊? 那女人傻傻的看着, 我来这里给我妹妹买孩子用的东西,你来干什么啊! 他吱吱呜呜的说: 我 我 哦 哦我同事今天有事不能来,让我帮他来接她老婆回家去, 哦,原来是这样啊!我以为是你在外面的女人呢?你要是敢你哥会不择手段的弄你,然后会把你的女人怎么样你知道的哦!多的不说了,我要给我妹妹调东西了。 他说: 嫂子,你哪个妹妹啊? 你老婆啊,还有谁,今天给我打电话说她怀孕了,我高兴死了,就马上来给她买东西,怎么你还不知道啊! 我看着那个女人脸都被气成绿色的了。嫂子看着他再发呆: 你怎么了啊!我妹妹怀孕都不告诉你,你们怎么了,生气了啊! 没有,我知道,她已经给我打过电话了,我这不是还没有缓过来吗?没事,嫂子,我们很好。我等会给他打个电话不行就回来吧! 听了这个嫂子立马给我来了个短信,躲起来,他很快会给你打电话。 我听了嫂子的躲到了爱马仕的专柜里面,看见他扶着那个女人就走了。当时我真的想当成他是来帮他同事接老婆的。可是现实打击了我。 跟踪下来的这几天我彻底伤透了。司机也拍了很多证据。我哥哥看着我伤心他找来了我的好姐们。 之后的一幕不是我想看见的,我的姐们拿着那些我最不想看到的照片偷偷的去找了我婆婆,并且把我的东西通通从他的家里搬了出来,还告诉了我婆婆我怀孕的事情,老人家气的晕了过去,等我到了医院的时候她已经醒了,看见我就眼泪直流,说: 孩子,不要走. 说完立马下床要给我跪下,他也接到通知来到了医院看见我很惊讶: 老婆,你不是出差了吗?怎么这么快就回来了啊! 我没有说话,我嫂子说: 她根本没有出差,你自己看。 说着把照片扔在了病床上。 妈,你怎么了妈? 不 不要叫我妈,我没有你这样的儿子, 他看了照片傻了眼,一时不知道怎么办,马上要走,可是我哥哥这个时候来了,正好拦了个正着,他被逼的退了回来,我哥哥脾气暴,上来就是一拳,打的他晕晕乎乎的,我立马拦住: 哥,不要打了。你打死他孩子就没有爸爸了,况且打死他咱们也解决不了问题,我还护着他,婆婆竟然说让我哥哥打死他,他没有这样的儿子。我让哥哥他们出去了,房间里就剩下了我和他,婆婆三人,很静很静,静的连心跳的声音都听的见,终于还是他打破平静, 老婆我错了,对不起,我有我的苦衷,求求你原谅我这一次,妈,你替我求求玲, 玲啊!妈求求你原谅他这一次行吗?妈也没有几年的活头了, 我不知道怎么说: 妈,您身体这么好不会有事的,我们两个不可能回到以前了,那个女人连孩子都有的,我要像您一样,自己把孩子养大,您放心,为了您我会把孩子养大的。妈,你好好养身子,等到明年还要你给我抱孩子呢?我明天再来看您。 随后,我回家了。我一个晚上都没有睡觉,想了整整一夜。 第二天,我来到医院,他看见了我,我看了看婆婆还没有醒,我就走了出来。他也跟着出来了,司机不让他靠近我, 你回家帮我拿下衣服吧!早上来的匆忙忘记拿了,现在感觉有点冷,我自己呆在这里就好了。 见我这样说他也明白了,马上离开了。 借一步说话吧! 他随我来到了顶楼。 老婆我 好了,你不用解释,我也不想听,我们不可能了,你明天回家去把结婚证拿来,我们把手续办了吧!趁现在我的肚子看不出来你赶紧解脱,要不然,等肚子明显了,你再想离婚法律可是不同意了, 他沉默了许久 我从来没有想过离婚,我也不知道事情会闹成这样,你想想我们以前,想想妈、想想我们的孩子。 够了,我不想再听了,我想想以前我现在都觉的恶心,妈还是我的妈,至于孩子,他只有奶奶,他的爸爸已经死了。我不想多说了,你走吧!我不想看见你,你告诉妈,我下午来看她。 我 我狠狠的指着电梯口,他走了,我的泪止不住的流,我控制不了我自己,我的心在滴血。 到了民政局我犹豫了,可是,当看到他的时候我下定了决心,因为不是他一个人来的,那个女人也来了,嫂子看见那个女人后控制不了自己,走了过去。: 还记得那天我见你时说的那些话吗?我说过的话我们会一一兑现。今天我妹妹所承受的一切你会体会到的。 红本换了绿本,一起走出了民政局的门口,那女人不知道在看什么,没有注意台阶,一步走空了,从台阶上滚了下去。其实那一刹那我多么想拉她一把,可是离得太远了,我无能为力。大人不管做了什么,可是孩子是无辜的啊!也许这就是报应吧!最后孩子没有保住。他看起来很失望。 我让我哥的司机去给那个女人送我亲手炖的鸡汤。可是,他这一趟没有白去,回来后给我放了一段录音,里面是一个男的和一个女人的对话, 亲爱的,我没有保住我们的孩子,怎么办,你不会不要我了吧!你什么时候给你老婆离婚啊,我实在受不了了。他老婆娘家人现在已经急眼了,说他老婆受到的一切都会让我体会。我害怕。 乖,我不会不要你的,孩子没有了我们再要。可是你看我们家那个黄脸婆,如果我跟她离婚我们什么都没有了,之前所做的一切也都没有用了,再忍忍啊!我很快就得到一切了。等我得到一切我会让你正式步入我们的家。 可是,我不想整天面对一个我不爱的人叫老公, 别可是了,再忍忍宝贝啊~ 听了这么多话,我不知道是高兴还是怎么了。 哥哥知道后,找来了他的律师去调查了事情的来龙去脉。原来,录音里面的那个男人是一家公司的副总,老总是他岳父,那个女人是他的情人,他的老婆不会生孩子,他妈妈又老是说要报孙子,所以他才想出了这一招。我老公长的年轻,他以为是个单身,没有想到他也是结了婚的。我老公和我哥陪客户去应酬,这个客户就是这个所谓的副总,他不知道我老公结婚了。说一起去唱歌,不好回绝,可是,我哥却喝醉了,他就去陪的客户,到了哪里那个女人也在,副总说她是他的妹妹,她把我老公灌醉,并下了安眠药,就这样他们把他和那个女人送到了宾馆,女人把衣服脱光了,硬说他们俩个发生关系,他什么都不记的了。也不好说什么!!起来就走了。 后来,这个女人等在了他公司门口,告诉他,她怀了他的孩子。带她去医院检查也确实是怀孕了,只能背着我这样照顾她了,他想走一步看一步,没有想到我会发现这么快。现在我知道了一切了,我没有想到我这个傻傻的老公这么傻。 我哥哥把所以的一切告诉他后,他的反应是多么的令人吃惊,他却说不可能,我哥说: 等我妹还没有反悔之前赶紧去找她,要不然我保不齐大人和孩子的平安~ 然后的一切大家应该知道了,他告诉我其实那条内裤是她开着他的车去找那个副总,他们那个的时候落下的,他之所以会说是我的,是因为那天我们在车里那个的时候我也穿了一条黑的内裤,他没有看清楚,所以就认为是我的。那个所谓的副总已经烟消云散了,被他老婆休了。 我们的生活又恢复了平静,经历了此事我老公好像更爱我了,2003年6月18号,我们的宝宝出生了,男孩,七斤多,一家人开开心心的,老公也自己开了一家公司,婆婆看见我们娘俩也是喜欢的不得了,我每天除了带孩子,还会去我老公的公司帮忙,因为我前期是会计出身,所以我老公让我管钱,他放心 续集待续~~~~~~~~

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However, he had no choice but to stretch out his other hand. It was really strange that he was so determined when choosing the path he had determined, and he had no choice but to persuade the people around him earnestly, after persuasion and persuasion, I went to the end with a sigh of relief. However, after being embarrassed and scarred, the stubbornness that the eight horses couldn’t pull back broke the bank in an instant, and they were down and out with empty hands, so they began to reflect, regret and grieve, after that, the plot of the long-time silent TV series will always be like this. The person who desires is destined to be the one who is burnt by the fire of desire. I thought it was a sin, and even if I had such thoughts, I should not be forgiven. But when the desire no longer even the desire also vanished, the inexplicable heart was filled with fear, and suddenly stood back for a long time at a certain moment. Then it was silent and turned around to warn myself more than once, contentment is a calm state of mind after hard work, but I don’t know when it will become a fixed mode to shuttle through the crowd like Walking Dead, blindly living a quiet life like death. At a certain moment, a certain place will suddenly feel inexplicable uneasy, but after occasionally raising his head, he will lower his head for a long time and then bury himself in his head, I am not working hard but deeply so that I can’t find the real self. I don’t know what I wrote. What I wrote has a relationship with desire. I just wrote it when I thought of it.

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On April 4, the year of the horse, I returned to my hometown. At dusk, my hometown brother accompanied me and proposed to take a photo. The background is the old village, Old Road and New Harbor of hometown. This place has left my impression for many years, and exclaimed: Longgang is under construction, and the construction will be carried out greatly. It will not be saved soon. I will take this chance to stay forever and cherish it! Then photo! 5 ri, Qingming. When sweeping the tomb, it was sunny and light. The old brothers and sisters and their old and young 12 people went to the grave to worship, expressing their love and missing, praying for more auspiciousness. At noon, I opened a drink in the Star City of the shooting Mountain, and dispersed until 2:00 p.m., rushing to each other. On the 6th, when the morning light was light, Lao Lanjun, who was in the same mood, took a bus to the family area of the old Chinese factory. However, seeing that the morning market was a little complicated, it made me recall that in primary school, adults often came here on, this is not the case. I am not careful about the past half a century. When you leave the east gate, you will see a village, which is quiet, clean and quiet. This village should be under the jurisdiction of Jurong. Going out of the village to the South Road, I saw the First Avenue crossing the East and West, which was once familiar. In the early 1980 s, when I was a teacher in Jurong Xiashu middle school, I often rode from here. In retrospect, I saw an abandoned cement factory appeared in front of me. This should be the Baohua cement factory at the beginning. A road next to the factory cut into the hinterland of the mountain, and a card was set aside saying: go directly to National Highway 312. We entered along here, and it was broken halfway. The road was not opened yet. The tunnel went up the mountain and then down the mountain. Now the old village named Shi Jiagang was established. It was once familiar here, I remembered that at that time I had a relative who was the village head here, and my family was here every year to cut firewood and transport firewood. But now the village had no trace, and I heard that it had been moved away. A large cemetery was newly established on the middle of the mountain near the village. Old Lan Jun pointed at this and said to me, “the tomb for him and his wife is here. The top of Baohua Mountain is right in front of his Cemetery, figure a Geely. When I enter the tomb, my children will go to the tomb for him!. I know that he has this Baohua Mountain Complex. I heard him say that he is young and bitter, and he cuts firewood here all day long during the spring and summer. He goes out early and goes back late, cuts firewood at night, and often walks for more than ten miles, in addition to the hardship, only the mountain scenery with flowers and flowers gave him great comfort. He put the hardship in front of the bond of self-cultivation. Now it is good and happy. He wants to thank this mountain, now this gratitude has become a place of gratitude and nostalgia for this pure and boundless Buddhism! So I looked up to the south, hehe, it was Baohua Mountain. 70, 1980s early each went to once, impressed. We climbed up the mountain along the royal road of Qianlong and climbed the stone path. The previous impression came back. We had a bird’s eye view of the mountainside, but the mountain was surrounded by iron urn in the east, Jinling in the West, song in the south and river in! The Longchang Temple in Jinbu mountain naturally knows that this temple is famous for Buddhism. The so-called walking around the temple, there is no mountain gate; Listening to the sound of chanting scriptures, there is no monk shadow, there is a kind of artistic conception of the ancient temple hidden in the deep mountains. Whenever night bird homing, listen to breeze whisper, let a person not by dunsheng World away. Emperor Qianlong once went to the Baohua mountain on the sixth day, and sighed sincerely: there was a show in the depth of Baohua, and I asked for directions. Kangxi also visited several times, giving silver gifts and free ink treasures. This temple occupies a very important position in the history of Buddhism in our country. Longchang Temple in the mountain has experienced more than 1500 years of vicissitudes and is currently the largest Taoist temple in China. Therefore, it is called the first mountain of law. View tong dian. Liang, Dong, barrel, window, tile, screen, Ying Xi fan copper for it, the back wall of the palace is inlaid with copper side, hence the name. The mother of Zen, the empress dowager of the Holy Emperor, gave two thousand taels to help it succeed. This Beamless Hall distribution in tong dian left, left is Manjusri Beamless Hall, right is Samantabhadra Beamless Hall, are Ming Dynasty buildings. At this time, Lao Lan Jun came to test me and said, “What is the difference between Manshu and Samantabhadra? I looked at it over and over again, and found that Manshu rode like snow, and Puxian rode like a lion. It was really hard to distinguish without looking at this, haha. Look at the room without beams, which is 3.2 Zhang high, with three two-storey pavilion-style rooms, no beams and no columns, doors and windows do not need a wood, the shape is like a wood structure, and the interior is replaced by bricks and tiles, which are purely made of bricks. The doors and windows are engraved with moiré, Erlong opera beads and other patterns. Temple have ring pool, is water year-round inexhaustible, rain years without overflowing, drought does not dry up, Biography for wonders. There are also nine holes in the mountain, namely the tidal sound hole, Oolong hole, White Tiger hole, Zhigong hole, Huanghua hole, pin hole, Donghua hole, Xihua hole and ancient monk hole. Among them, the Oolong cave is unfathomable. Hole for limestone cave. Baohua mountain Zonal vegetation is well preserved, among which Baohua Magnolia is a unique tree species, which is a new generation three million years ago. There are wild species such as bamboo, water bamboo, bitter bamboo and short-ear bamboo, which are called Bamboo Sea. There are abundant animal resources here, including more than 20 mammals such as jackal, Wolf, Roe and Fox, and nearly 100 kinds of birds such as thrush, starpa and egret, which are of high ornamental and research value! The water flows and the Stones do not move, and the mountains and clouds fly. Baohua Mountain, which is handed down from ancient times by Buddhism and religion, has the scenery of two dragons, four pools, seven sets, nine holes and twelve springs, which integrates the beauty of the forest foot, the beauty of the mountains, the depth of the caves and the victory of the misty, people walk in the mountains, just like walking in fairyland. I remembered a word I wrote a few years ago: “Yongyu le. Xia linbaohua” stood high-standard, with the sky being blue and far away, the spirit and rain getting through, Chen Han left the topic, the bright world of law, and eight heavenly dragons howling. hui ju in? Sanskrit is a wonderful gift, it is the time to break the customs. Several times of watching, bullfighting into the sea, sweating white clouds and dogs. The long smoke was picked up from afar, and Longchang left a thread, and the fine iron cliff was still the same. It is the same wind for thousands of miles, and the Fairy is good to take advantage of it. I have a high-spirited life, a colorful pen, and a big gift. Material return, Bodhi don’t realize, a peak is very beautiful. After getting down the mountain, it was the south of the mountain. After entering the Tangshan situation, my legs ran 10 miles away, and my legs were sore and swollen. However, the south of the mountain is beautiful and delicious, which is created by Anji Mountain Reservoir, but this Anji Mountain Reservoir is indeed created by this Baohua Mountain. We stayed at the side of the road for an hour before getting on the bus and finally went back home. Haha!

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I said I would open a small shop. But when I think of gamblers in small town stores, I feel extremely disgusted. Especially, last night my continued 17 was lost because of the pinching of the network cable, so I hated the owner of the shop next door more deeply in my heart. Therefore, after the completion of my shop, I put an end to all Vulgar activities in the shop. But it seems that there are still some shortcomings. After all, I thought that the store should not be too quiet, but it is better to have some activities. What activity is good? As far as my personal preference is concerned, culture is indeed more important than anything else. Therefore, it is appropriate to hold activities with rich literary color frequently. But that’s all the aftermath. Because at this moment, I have a more important message to convey to every reader. Hope Qing Qing. As I said, I once made a self-improvement with great effect. This improvement may be my misdeeds in others’ eyes. However, I want to tell you that without the implementation of that excellent decision, there would be no me today. In the past, my character and physiology had great defects, but I successfully changed my bad situation with what I had learned in my whole life and under the guidance of the eight-character policy. I felt unprecedented excitement. Because I went the right way. Today, all my beauty is inseparable from the five-year-long reform. It can be said that today I have undergone fundamental transformation. This is the case both in terms of physiology and heart. A thousand words, a word, the stars change, wisdom is eternal! Now, I’m going to reward for my success. I won’t forget those people who really helped me, and naturally I won’t let go of any cultural rascals, robbers and minions who hindered my improvement activities. I am a person who is always new. Naturally, I am also a person who knows the gains and losses and distinguishes right from wrong. Although I can’t say how righteous I am and not afraid of dignitaries, as far as this matter is concerned, I can do one thing: never break my eyebrows and turn my back to the dignitaries! If I called on the podium one by one as soon as I came up, then handed in the award certificate and shook hands to congratulate, it seemed extremely vulgar. Or, it is unrealistic to send the sinner to the guillotine. Because I don’t have the financial resources or the power, but I have my way. This method is the following paragraph. Not long ago, a newcomer in politics said this sentence: we want to make teachers the most respected profession and group in the world. At first glance, it seems that there is no problem in respecting teachers and valuing education. However, putting it in real life is completely another concept. After thinking over and over again, I felt that this sentence was not good enough. It was as shameless as a comfort woman mentioned by a Japanese mayor qiaoxianchu who was reasonable in wartime. I am not exaggerating to say it. Because this is simply a nonsense. Maybe readers don’t care. It may be that you are blinded by the false lofty of politicians. 5 12 after the Wenchuan earthquake, a teacher did not support and rescue the trapped students. After this matter was known by all the dignitaries who were good, that teacher was permanently dismissed. So we say, is this teacher worthy of respect? I said should. Isn’t self-esteem and self-love another interpretation of cherishing life. Therefore, what I want to say to that teacher is that you are not wrong. What is wrong is that you were born in China. I think it’s not a big mistake for students to suffer. After the collapse of teaching buildings one by one, and the government buildings still stand proudly and unshakable, you will understand what I mean. Not long ago, the principal of a school in Hainan took the students to open the house. Afterwards, this matter was widely spread on the Internet. So, is the principal worthy of respect? If according to the politician, we should show mercy outside the law and provide shelter. Teacher? Still want to respect. No matter what his behavior is! After all, the authority of Mikado cannot be challenged. Otherwise, it’s hard to save your life! I wrote the following paragraph, you may think it is off the topic. But I am writing here to say that we are not saying that we must respect who is who. The key is to see that person’s behavior and whether he is worthy of being respected or not. In a word, I love my teacher, but I love the truth more! This is also indispensable for the construction of small tile houses. You said? Having said so much, looking back, in my improvement, I want to respect and hate respectable people. So I want to say, I want to sincerely thank those who have responded correctly to my behavior! Because your right way is like a bronze mirror, illuminating my life path. Let me see my own shortcomings, and at the same time let me see clearly how to go ahead. But I also send you the most sincere apology! Because of me, I disturb your peaceful learning environment. I’m sorry! When people treat those cultural rascals, robbers and minions who have bad intentions, I also have something to say to you: because I met you, I have seen clearly what the quality of Chinese people is like. I hope that you will constantly improve your standard of being a human being, do not tarnish the purity of the education circle again, and do not destroy the reputation of teachers. Finally, I want to express that meeting you is a great shame in my life. Of course, this matter itself is also a shocking scandal! You think?

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Our school carried out a visit activity on the 11th of March 5th, 2012. The activity was organized, organized and planned. All the teachers successfully completed the task of home visit, home visit activities have greatly strengthened parents’ trust and support for the school, and also made leaders and teachers have a further understanding of left-behind students. Under the high attention and careful organization of school leaders, each teacher has achieved good results in propagandizing educational concepts, guiding educational methods, strengthening psychological counseling for students and other aspects through door-to-door visits, the summary is as follows: 1. Determine the plan and organize learning. On March 2th, our school set up a leading group of visiting students led by principal Wang Hongbo, formulated the activity plan and determined the content of the visiting activities: to understand the family situation of the left-behind students, feedback the situation of students in school to parents, ask for parents’ requirements and suggestions, and publicize school work and education regulations. This visit activity will conduct 100% home visits to the left-behind students, which will be conducted in the form of visits and will be completed within one week. The visit activity includes two parts. The first part is the visit activity attended by all teachers of each grade; The second part is the home visit activity implemented by the head teacher, the main reason is that the head teacher carries out home visit activities for the special families of the left-behind students in this class. According to the actual situation, the left-behind students in each class are paired with the teachers in this class, and they are divided into several visiting groups to go deep into each student’s family. 2. Propaganda and guidance, and reach consensus. On March 3rd, President Wang also emphasized the safety problems of teachers themselves during the visit and explained the safety knowledge and basic etiquette knowledge, emphasize to do a good job of propaganda and explanation with parents in a peaceful mind, and listen carefully to parents’ opinions and suggestions on the school. Home visits are not only to reflect the learning situation of students at school to parents, but we pay more attention to propagandizing the school-running concept and current educational concept to parents, give reasonable suggestions and scientific guidance on the issue of educating children. After the home visit on March 4th, the school held a special meeting, which mainly checked the effect of this home visit. A relatively good effect appeared in the activity, if some parents understand that scolding blindly will only alienate the distance between parents and children, they will change their words and deeds when getting along with children; some parents accept that they should not only focus on their children’s academic performance, but also comprehensively measure and evaluate their children’s opinions. Therefore, they will give more praise and encourage their children to build confidence; some parents understand that children are under great pressure now, and parents should give them understanding and care, so they will not force their children any more and will give them psychological counseling timely; some parents know that parents will arouse their children’s enthusiasm for work and study if they ask more questions and pay more attention, so they will change the previous practice of not asking questions, thus adding another active job to the class, members who are willing to learn. In this way, we keep consistent with our parents in concept and get the same ideas. We have reached a consensus, and naturally we will receive gratifying results in education. 3. Regular supervision and follow-up education. The successful completion of the first phase of home visit does not mean the end of home visit education. We have established a one-on-one assistance mechanism for teachers and students. We will continue to pay home visits, telephone visits and SMS contacts, the forms of network communication and so on do a good job in tracking and tracing students, thus ensuring the long-term effectiveness of home visit education. After this home visit, we made records in time, kept first-hand information, paid attention to observing the effect of home visits, and adjusted educational strategies in time according to students’ responses to ensure the beginning and end of education and let home visits really play their effectiveness. Our home visit indeed made some left-behind students change their mind greatly and have great energy in action after home visit activities. Parents and teachers all made little progress for left-behind students, I feel gratified and happy for my good performance. After this home visit, the political education department of the school regularly checked the teacher’s home visit Records. The records did not lie in how many, but in whether they were true and reliable. Each teacher carefully filled in the record form of home visits, especially the column of talking with parents, which was really affectionate and touching. He also left photos and other materials on the scene and stored them in the file. Each teacher also determines the target of the next home visit according to the actual situation of the students, thus ensuring the planning and continuity of the visit activities in the future. This visit to teachers not only strengthens the communication between teachers, students and their families, but also provides a vivid and in-depth educational opportunity for teachers to cultivate good ethics. Through this activity, the majority of teachers feel the heavy responsibility on their shoulders more intuitively and deeply, which stimulates their sense of mission and responsibility, thus strengthening teachers’ service Consciousness. Our school will base on this home visit experience, continue to pay attention to special students such as left-behind students, and strive to do their ideological and educational work well, laying a solid foundation for the next home visit activity. 2013 nian 9 yue 3 ri

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