It seems that at this age, as you have a boyfriend, does everyone’s topic become your marriage? The number of times the word love is spoken out from our mouths is also decreasing, I have heard a speech about marriage and love these days, which is very depressing and realistic. He said that love is a belief, a yearning, a kind of truth, goodness and beauty in our hearts, letter have, not Letter no. What the Sea runs dry and the rocks crumble, and what grow old in vain is just a romantic feeling of poets, and each of us is deceiving ourselves and others. But marriage is actually a kind of contract. Some people give up their original marriage in pursuit of love, some people ignore love in pursuit of marriage, and some people are purely pursuing love but not getting married. What is the difference between love and marriage, I can’t get a very appropriate statement even if I sharpen my head. I think love is more free and beautiful. Marriage not only gives us a sense of restraint but also gives us a responsibility, marriage seems to require us to follow our partner forever. Facing the insipid and difficult life, I think why he says love is self-deceiving and marriage is a kind of contract, I think that is because of the realistic and negative attitude. The plain reality will erase our love. In the end, it may be just a habit, but the Sea runs dry and the rocks crumble, and the old love still exists, however, it is very difficult, and rare has become a kind of yearning for us. It has become what he said that we are deceiving ourselves and others. The reality is a bit slim, but if you only think about how to live well with the reality slim, we can’t attribute marriage to an ordinary contractual relationship, even if you may divorce in the future, maybe your relationship will be cold in the future, but the marriage was based on love at the beginning. Of course, there are many people who get married just for marriage, but I don’t think that kind of people can be very happy, people not only need to be satisfied materially, but also need to be nourished spiritually. The examples around me tell me that they just pretend to be shiny on the surface. Why in today’s society, it seems that they are in a hurry to fall in love and have a love, but they can’t wait to get married, talking about a long-flowing love becomes a luxury. Recently, I watched the TV series “under the gate of Zhengyang”, in which Su Meng and Chunming had been in love for decades, either he or she didn’t marry, my parents regard them as unmarried couples, and I can’t help admiring them. I’m also thinking about why we should get married so quickly. In order to pass on our family, we are still afraid of broken love. Why do we want to get married and why do we want to get married so quickly? I think this is a question that we should think carefully. Marriage and love, love is very beautiful, marriage is very plain, but I think plain marriage contains beautiful love, love is always there, marriage is not only a contractual relationship, the contract is dead and cold, while love is very warm.

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