After years of baptism, the tree is surrounded by ring rings, which are more robust and straight, but the scars on the body are also accumulating constantly, with the invasion of wind and frost and the eating of cattle and sheep, there are axe marks of human beings, but it is also the pain of this kind that makes the originally thin saplings grow and strengthen constantly. On the road of our life, we are also constantly suffering blows and accumulating scars in our hearts. However, human hearts are different from numbers. People will worry and worry, thus moving towards the opposite side of natural laws. Once there was a senior manager who was busy and busy every day. His nerves were tightened every day. For orders, he kept thinking and worrying, he worried that he couldn’t get the order, that the order he got was robbed by others, and that the seller was not satisfied because of the high apology of the order, I am also worried about whether my trusted key employees will leave a narrow path. He thinks differently in the Author all day long. Everything seems to have two sides, which makes him unable to settle down. He lives in anxiety every day and occasionally goes out for dinner, which is also physical and mental exhaustion, barely exposed smile. Due to his responsibilities, he must be capable and mature, make quick decisions, understand communication skills, be a versatile person, and deal with problems of all parties. In others’ view, this senior executive was more appreciated by the leaders because he had no worries about food and clothing, had a house and a car, and had a happy family. However, only he himself knew whether he was happy or not. Life and work are full of uncertain factors. We all want to seize the future, understand the future, and make various predictions about the future. The prediction results are also diverse, with delightful and worried results, generally, we don’t consider the gratifying direction, but magnify the worries to make ourselves unhappy. In the continuous experience, life tells us that when you predict the future, you will encounter many blows when you are very happy; When your prediction of the future is very severe, life gives you many surprises, such things can be found everywhere. It is because of this psychological trend that we think too much about the future risk layer, but the risk is always endless. There are always some things that cannot be solved in a short period of time. As a result, we are worried about it. Worry is our thinking, not reality. Sometimes changes in reality are completely different from changes in thinking. Because your mind is always thinking at a certain level, and you cannot consider all the interference factors. Therefore, give yourself some space. When thinking about the dead end, please be sure to come out first and don’t continue, because your persistence will make you unable to extricate yourself, the anxious world is so panic that it will drown your delightful future. No matter how surprised our thinking is, it is careless. Only the real experience, every movement and contact in our hands are the most real. We should throw away our worries as much as possible, and let those unhappy things be put aside for a while. When we have a good mood, we can solve them again. Maybe things will have a new turn. When you are happy, you will feel that there are no problems in the world and everything is like a fish in water; When you are lost, you will feel that time is in crisis everywhere and everything is beyond your control, please understand yourself and let your good mood solve your worries. When you can’t think carefully, please do some simple actions. The senior executive above once inspected his production line and found that the production line was making screws. Although different screws were put in different boxes, he found that employees sometimes took wrong screws, especially one kind of the most critical screw, which often makes mistakes and has once caused dissatisfaction from customers. So he walked to the side of the production line and said that I would help you divide this kind of screws, and then he really operated it. Six screws were installed on a board, and he allocated screws according to the number of boards, he was counting the screws carefully with a knife. He was so serious and so careful. When he finished the 200 screws, he suddenly found that he was in a very good mood. He reflected on himself. In fact, it was not that he found the wrong way to control the screws, but that he found fun in the process of counting the screws, in which his actions were the most real and detailed. Under the perception of this screw, this senior executive found that customers and employees could also be classified, so his thinking entered a new track, and it perfectly solved his anxiety in this aspect. Later, whenever he was in a bad mood, he always came to the production line to count the screws himself. Strangely, he always finds solutions to other problems after counting screws. Behind things, there are always many details. What we need to do is to catch the details of things and expose them to the sun without burying our hearts, because those buried in the bottom of the heart for a long time will become dark and damp. Grasp the details, operate the details, cooperate with each other and verify each other with detailed actions and thoughts, so as to find the future road, scan all kinds of thorns on the future road and enrich the heart with details, create value!

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