People always take some things in their growing years to the Future 2010. At the end of February, that was the first time you put your love into it. From then on, the breathless floating dream 5.17 the rain and cold rain in the dream woke up all the noise in your life. You can’t see the dawn. 6.5 his signature is the flower in the forest thanks the Spring red is too hurried but the cold rain comes late the wind Rouge tears stay drunk when you grow up hate water long East 7.7 you think of a word he taught you the book 7.21 the sharp memory is like the fog cut off the world in front of him in this way. He left a pity 8.9 you begin to understand love without God to reward your diligence 8.16 who approaches who will avoid you being displaced who will avoid you having no branches to depend on you appreciate that you can invest in yourself but you can’t invest in a relationship. 2011.9.9 he remembers you. He said he loves you. You may be able to give up your life for the one you love, but you can’t fulfill it. He loves others. The difficult thing is not to die, but to fulfill it. 9.27 a happy birthday a sentence I love you at the end of the phone you sob 10.15 if you can’t help loving someone who doesn’t love you, it’s because you still don’t know how to love yourself 10.17 a dozen Budweiser stomach burning pain you just want to go to sleep like this and never wake up. 11.19 You go to punch the ear hole by yourself and still leave your left ear. Then let the seawater submerge your mouth and nose, you will suffocate 2012 second. It’s not clear that I killed you so much that you didn’t leave anything ambiguous and dragged you deep in the mud. You suddenly woke up. This deep midnight is too easy to make realistic yourself nowhere to hide. You make yourself too busy to 2.14 every word he said. It’s enough for you to have a dream daydream every time after 3.31 you are qualified to laugh at the present you 4.29 really want to use all the evil for his life can not end up the next second but pray that he can live well 6.16 the original when you really love someone, whether he is an angel or a devil, I hope his happy mood is so natural and sincere. You Turn waiting into a habit. In fact, you have already thoroughly understood the indifference of this man. You don’t save your worries. How contradictory are you afraid that one day you will no longer love him? Have you been in a state of unease since you won’t be hurt by him for 100 times every day? Believe that he is just afraid of hurting you, not lying to you. He is poison. He said you are also poison. He said you describe him as a demon. If you love someone, you will forget the distance of the road. You keep thinking about how good he is. You become more and more persistent recently. The sky is very blue and the expression of people is as transparent as the sunshine you just run in that direction you just keep running occasionally slack occasionally discouraged occasionally fear but never give up you believe that one day you will have the courage to see him let the rumor go on and on, let yourself be determined, cry and say, “Please go forward bravely to test your heart. Don’t say regret. Words are broken. Ling Chi’s things you wrote to him. That person may never come back. Maybe tomorrow is the most painful thing to come back what is not loneliness the most painful thing is to imagine that you have thousands of words but you have nothing to say. You talk to yourself. He doesn’t want you, but you just can’t be together. So you start to wait for him. So you are fast in your years. When you get old, you want him to be relieved. So you imitate the beautiful and warm appearance stiffly. So you plan to run away. So you make him a marble statue in your heart. So you start to carefully carve and imagine that he is the fierce soldiers who came out of the sword and sword made your age chaotic. So you began to imitate in the distance and found the reason why you were no longer close. 9.25 you finally made up your mind to leave him and leave this funny comedy. Then you met there is a woman who tells you all the truth. You laugh wildly and then burst into tears. You know your best time. The purest feelings are gone like this. There is such a kind of person in the world. He the appearance of his leaving will make you grow up and make you invincible from now on. 2013.4.1, you said you were not sad at all. You said you really forgot everything. You said I didn’t love him. You were afraid of what he did now. It’s really calm and disdain to hate and don’t love it. It’s just a memorial ceremony. In the days to come, you should be smart. The Fox jumped into the Hunter’s trap because she fell in love with the hunter’s smile. She earned the hunter’s smile with her own

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The erratic heart wandered wildly in the classroom. I feel calm, but I feel upset. Now I have a doubt about everything I have. Doubt your ability, the teaching profession you are engaged in, the 30 years of ups and downs you have gone through, and sometimes even doubt the survival itself. Why is it like this? I can’t say for sure. Now I am content with the status quo and even muddle along. Feel that life is meaningless, no matter how hard you struggle and struggle, you will eventually return to the dust. No matter how much I give to others, I can’t get others’ understanding and recognition. In this way, what is the significance of my giving? It would be better to hold basketball alone and sweat alone on the ice-cooled and enthusiastic playground, letting the fierce and ruthless sunshine make my delicate and white skin dark and rough. At least, I can forget a lot on the playground. Now I also like to mess around in the office with a mobile phone that I once thought was boring and ruthless. Even if I turn it on and off again and again, I still feel it is much better than crying loudly, at least my heart is calm. There is no need to be adorable and adorable in order to win others’ good impression, nor to flatter others with head and tail, let alone raise eyebrows for envy others’ achievements, my mouth is prominent and I am angry and sad. I am just myself, the self that blocks myself. The blockade here is not a negative isolation from the world, Instead, I return my heart to peace, and then use another way to make up for the missing things. Use words to express all kinds of things. Recently, I especially like that kind of simple and elegant words, just like drinking tea. A long smell can’t leave in my heart for a long time. Maybe if you close the book and put down the pen, you will not remember anything, but there is a great sense of satisfaction in your heart. I don’t know when I don’t like the strong white wine and the light boiled water. I only feel that the elegance of fragrant tea can store my soul. Staring at the rising tea leaves in the glass, smelling the strong aroma of tea, tasting this wonderful drink of tea blending, the inner satisfaction is incomparable. Life is enough. There is no need to haggle over every penny. Life is just like this tea, which can only be drunk two or three times by the drinker in the Cup, and then it will be flushed into the toilet. When the mission is completed, why should people remember themselves? It is enough to live in this world, and there is no need for others’ understanding and memory. He also lives in a state of great freedom. If it doesn’t matter to the world, then the world doesn’t matter to himself.

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It was another night of rain, which made the whole house full of the smell of rain. The rain jumped in through the window and wandered around the whole house, ticking and pouring into the ears like a lullaby. I turned on the bedside lamp, and the light seemed to be frozen by the cold rain, not as bright as before. I got out of the bed and was wrapped by a cold air. The temperature dropped again. I couldn’t help shivering cold. This early winter morning was cold by the lingering rain. After washing and having breakfast, put a cup of tea on the tea table, and watch the water in the Cup turn green and yellow gradually from colorless transparent liquid, glittering and translucent as draft beer, and the tea leaves are rolling and jumping in the cup of water, after a while, I was tired of jumping and sleeping at the bottom of the Cup honestly. At this time, I stretched out my hand to hold the slightly hot Cup, sipped my mouth and blew off the floating foam on the saliva surface of the cup. I began to taste tea, sipped it with a small mouth, mouthful, drink until the water in the Cup just submerge the water line of the tea. At this time, it was already 07:30, which was a fixed time. It Was 07:30 after drinking the first cup of tea every day. Although today is a day of rest at home on Saturday, I still get up on time as usual, and it becomes natural to get used to it. The rain outside the window was still ticking, ticking and falling. The steps of the rain did not speed up or slow down. It was also very troublesome to encounter such a rainy day when I went to work. I went to work with an umbrella and walked all the way without any damage to my upper clothes. However, my trouser legs and shoe surface were full of muddy stars thrown up when walking. If you ride a bike, the Rain star will fly diagonally like an arrow! When shooting at yourself head-on, the higher the driving speed is, the more urgent the Rain Arrow is. You can sit in the elegant room and enjoy your leisure without going to work. I brought myself a second cup of water. The sleeping tea at the bottom of the Cup was like being awakened by hot water. I suddenly cheered up, exulting and dancing, the finished tea made by jumping these green leaves picked from the tea tree through many procedures of cool leaves, fixing, rolling, drying, tiling and selecting is lifeless, but it was made to live by the water, sometimes sleeping, sometimes dancing. As the saying goes: the first bowl is dirty, two bowls of incense, three bowls, four bowls of spoiled water soup. These two bowls of tea are really sweet and refreshing, as if they are pure and beautiful to filter impurities. Holding up the hot hot air of the teacup, the smoke curled up circled and evaporated in front of my face. I walked to the window and saw rows of houses, roadways and pedestrians through the window screen, all of which were submerged in the drizzle. This feeling and this scene made my thoughts fly in the air, which reminded me of Dai Wangshu’s rain Lane: holding the oiled paper umbrella, I hesitated alone in the long, long and lonely rain Lane, I hope to meet a girl who is as sad as lilac. She has clove-like color, clove-like fragrance, clove-like sorrow, sadness in the rain, sadness and hesitation; She is wandering in this lonely rain Lane, holding oil paper umbrella like me, walking silently like me, indifferent, sad and melancholy. Under the misty rain flying all over the sky, there are also countless rain lanes and countless girls. The difference is that in the real rain Lane, there is no more oil-paper umbrellas and sorrow, girls who are as fragrant as lilacs, no longer walk silently, no longer indifferent, sad, and melancholy, but hold the heaven umbrella, clasp the headset, listen to the music, and walk lightly, with a happy mood, follow the things you are interested in. It is also true that the rain Lane written by the poet 80 years ago is naturally different from the rain Lane written 80 years later. How can it be compared?

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唐代著名诗人陆龟蒙有诗赞道: 九秋风露越窑开,夺得千峰翠色来 (赞扬上林湖)题慈溪张丞壁因君贰邑蓝溪上,遣我维舟红叶时。共向乡中非半面,俱惊鬓里有新丝。伫看孤洁成三考,应笑愚疏舍一枝。貌似故人心尚喜,相逢况是旧相知。潇湘雨 送西溟归慈溪纳兰性德长安一夜雨,便添了、几分秋色。奈此际萧条,无端又听,渭城风笛。咫尺层城留不住,久相忘、到此偏相忆。依依白露丹枫,渐行渐远,天涯南北。凄寂。黔娄当日事,总名士如河消得。只皂帽蹇驴,西风残照,倦游踪迹。廿载江南犹落拓,叹一人、知己终难觅。君须爱酒能诗,鉴湖无恙,一蓑一笠。 柔石(1902~1931),url]浙江宁海人。原名赵平复,门前曾有一块小石桥,上镌 金桥柔石 ,所以就曾以 柔石 、 金桥 为笔名。代表作有中篇小说《二月》、《三姊妹》、短篇小说《为奴隶的母亲》。1931年1月17日被捕,2月7日深夜,被国民党枪杀于上海龙华警备司令部。终年30岁,成为 左联五烈士 之一。两年后,悲愤总时时袭击着鲁迅先生的心,他的《为了忘却的记念》成了对烈士永远的怀念。 在宁海城关北面建有以烈士命名的宁海最大的公园 柔石公园,在离故居百米的地方有以烈士命名的学校 柔石中学。 柔石1918年入学浙江省立第一师范学校,加入新文学团体 晨光社 ,开始投身新文化运动。1920年19岁的柔石遵父母之命,与长他两岁的同乡吴素瑛完婚。婚后他们育有两子一女,后来长子赵帝江、次子赵德鲲和女儿赵小薇皆从事教书育人工作。 1924年春在浙江慈溪县城普迪小学任教。1925年到北京大学旁听。1926年春因生活无法维持离京南下。至秋到浙江镇海县镇海中学任教。1927年回到家乡宁海中学任教。1928年初,在中共地下组织和进步力量支持下,任宁海县教育局局长。1928年6月在上海,结识鲁迅,并得到帮助发起成立朝花社,创办《朝花周刊》。1929年1月,接《语丝》的编校任务。不久,与鲁迅合编《近代木刻选集(1)(2)》等,并出版合译作品集《奇剑及其它》、《在沙漠上》等。11月创作并出版小说代表作《二月》,同时积极参加中国左翼作家联盟的筹备工作。1930年参与由鲁迅主编的《萌芽月刊》(后成 左联 机关刊物)编辑工作,并创作小说《为奴隶的母亲》,控诉封建社会。同年春天参加中国自由运动大同盟及左联,并任左联常务委员。5月加入中国共产党。不久,代表左联出席在上海召开的全国苏维埃区域代表大会。会后撰写长篇通讯《一个伟大的形象》。1931年1月17日,因叛徒告密,在上海汉口路东方旅社被捕。2月7日牺牲于龙华,为 左联五烈士 之一。柔石一生共留下55万字的创作作品和63万字的译作。2002年9月10日,虹口区人民政府、上海市文物管理委员会、上海市文联、上海市作家协会联合主办 柔石诞辰100周年纪念座谈会 。虹口区文物遗址史料馆在中国左翼作家联盟成立大会会址纪念馆中推出 柔石百年诞辰文物展 。 柔石故居坐落在浙江宁海城关西门, 柔石故居 四个字就是鲁迅先生的夫人许广平1960年1月题写的。 电视电影《为奴隶的母亲》根据左联作家柔石的同名短篇小说改编,是cctv电影频道于2004年为纪念作家柔石先生诞辰100周年而特别制作的。此前本片已在2005年第17届法国兰斯国际电视节上获最佳音乐奖,在2004年好莱坞国际电影电视节上获得星光奖最佳影片奖,2004年第十届上海国际电视节获 白玉兰 奖最佳电视剧奖。 影片《早春二月》根据柔石的中篇小说《二月》改编,1964年,北京电影制片厂出品,导演谢铁骊。1983年荣获葡萄牙第十二届菲格拉达福兹国际电影节 评委奖 。是新中国电影的一个 异数 !十七年故事片巅峰之作! 而根据著名现代作家柔石代表作改编的电视剧《早春二月》,将于近日播出。该剧主要由《金粉世家》的原班人马打造,刘国权、李大为共同执导,主人公由董洁、辛柏青两位当红偶像明星在时隔四十年后全新演绎电影《早春二月》中的经典角色陶岚、萧涧秋。慈溪杨梅甲天下。杨梅,在我们慈溪人的心目中,已经不再是一种水果,而是慈溪城市的一张 名片 。 在杨梅节期间,明星演唱会、杨梅仙子评选、开辟杨梅园旅游专线,并凭借杨梅节这个平台举办各种论坛。政府重视程度,百姓参与热度,几乎胜过任何一个节日。杨梅节已成了慈溪人民的节日。 最近,我在腾讯微博上看到一位慈溪朋友这样赞美杨梅:真 梅 丽、 梅 滋滋、 梅 不胜收、 梅 开颜笑、 梅 力无穷。杨梅不仅是产地百姓物质富裕的 摇钱树 ,也成了全市人民精神富有的 开心果 。 因此,我们的确要做好以 梅 为媒的工作,让 慈溪杨梅甲天下 变成 天下知慈溪杨梅 ,使慈溪杨梅成为提升桥城知名度 信使 、联接四方的 金纽带 ,让世人更多地了解慈溪、认识慈溪、熟悉慈溪,吸引更多的好项目、强企业来慈溪投资。 以 梅 为媒的工作我们要做出气势,但对已成为产业的杨梅,我们要做实。最近,我看到一份资料,仅浙江省已有五分之二的区域种植杨梅,而且规模扩大趋势明显,杨梅的品质也在逐年提升。这对慈溪是个不小的挑战。这是我提出慈溪杨梅文章要往实处做的主要原因。如果不往实处做,慈溪杨梅甲天下的美誉会被别人平分秋色,甚至若干年后,或许这个 甲天下 就不属于慈溪了。 那么,如何把杨梅文章做实,依我的见解,只有一个途径,那就是 科技兴梅 。具体地说,应该从这样四个方面入手:一是改善品种结构,提升杨梅品质。二是优化栽培技术,提高成果率。目前,我市少数梅农在尝试梅树矮化栽培,值得扶持和总结。三是加强科技攻关,探索杨梅提前和延时上市的新技术。四是种植规模适当扩大,提高杨梅产量。这样,杨梅的数量和质量同步推进,才能永葆慈溪杨梅的 梅 力无穷,让拥有杨梅的慈溪人始终有 梅 开颜笑的心情。杨梅,这张慈溪 城市名片 因此也会变得更加靓丽。 慈溪杨梅甲天下。杨梅,在我们慈溪人的心目中,已经不再是一种水果,而是慈溪城市的一张 名片 。 在杨梅节期间,明星演唱会、杨梅仙子评选、开辟杨梅园旅游专线,并凭借杨梅节这个平台举办各种论坛。政府重视程度,百姓参与热度,几乎胜过任何一个节日。杨梅节已成了慈溪人民的节日。 最近,我在腾讯微博上看到一位慈溪朋友这样赞美杨梅:真 梅 丽、 梅 滋滋、 梅 不胜收、 梅 开颜笑、 梅 力无穷。杨梅不仅是产地百姓物质富裕的 摇钱树 ,也成了全市人民精神富有的 开心果 。 因此,我们的确要做好以 梅 为媒的工作,让 慈溪杨梅甲天下 变成 天下知慈溪杨梅 ,使慈溪杨梅成为提升桥城知名度 信使 、联接四方的 金纽带 ,让世人更多地了解慈溪、认识慈溪、熟悉慈溪,吸引更多的好项目、强企业来慈溪投资。 以 梅 为媒的工作我们要做出气势,但对已成为产业的杨梅,我们要做实。最近,我看到一份资料,仅浙江省已有五分之二的区域种植杨梅,而且规模扩大趋势明显,杨梅的品质也在逐年提升。这对慈溪是个不小的挑战。这是我提出慈溪杨梅文章要往实处做的主要原因。如果不往实处做,慈溪杨梅甲天下的美誉会被别人平分秋色,甚至若干年后,或许这个 甲天下 就不属于慈溪了。 那么,如何把杨梅文章做实,依我的见解,只有一个途径,那就是 科技兴梅 。具体地说,应该从这样四个方面入手:一是改善品种结构,提升杨梅品质。二是优化栽培技术,提高成果率。目前,我市少数梅农在尝试梅树矮化栽培,值得扶持和总结。三是加强科技攻关,探索杨梅提前和延时上市的新技术。四是种植规模适当扩大,提高杨梅产量。这样,杨梅的数量和质量同步推进,才能永葆慈溪杨梅的 梅 力无穷,让拥有杨梅的慈溪人始终有 梅 开颜笑的心情。杨梅,这张慈溪 城市名片 因此也会变得更加靓丽。 慈溪的政策更是好,特别是对外来打工人,更是尊敬有加,讲究文明慈溪,慈溪响应国家国策,尊重穷苦打工人,慈溪有几十万外来打工人,慈溪政府三令五申,不得欺负外来打工的,不得让外来打工的穷人穿上羞辱衣,要尊敬打工的穷苦大众,因为我国国策规定尊敬穷人尊严的国家才是大国,而慈溪市政府条条规定,不得欺负外来打工人,可是市政府文件和精神到不到长河,或许到了只是长河镇政府不知道有人仗势欺人,只手遮天,他们说他们就是长河的天,因为他们有钱有势,甚至说就算冤死不得喊冤,一喊冤就让一个打工穷女人一生都穿上羞辱衣,他们就是天,他们的话就是真理,真理实事它姓权,不属于弱者,不属于打工的穷女人,真相它姓钱,不属于穷人,他们口口声声说他们羞辱了那么多,给一个打工女人穿了那么多件羞辱衣,骂了,羞辱了那么多,他们以为该自杀死了,,为何还敢喊冤,冤枉呀,他们想逼死一个喊冤的女人,因为写了他们的罪状,他们甚至想杀人灭口,甚至想找人羞辱死写喊冤的弱女人,已经让她背上条条重罪,恳请所有看到的人帮帮忙,多么希望慈溪市有领导看到,长河有冤屈,我知道可能再喊冤就会被羞辱嘲笑死,我知道他们已经罪从心起,他们说会找好多人去喊冤者的住处羞辱死她,想要逼她自杀,长河有人喊冤,本地人仗势欺人,用权势暗中勾结,暗整人,不让弱者说一个字,说一个字就让喊冤的人一生穿上羞辱衣一生,他们说他们有钱,有钱可以整死喊冤,权势金钱之下谎言也可以成真理,冤枉呀,难道打工的女人就不能要尊严了吗,打工女人要自尊,打工女人要尊严,不敢明告罪那是因为被暗整,又有权势有钱人暗中做怪,他们声称他们有钱,什么都可以做,钱可以通天,如果还敢喊冤就让喊冤者整个中国没有容身之所,他们有钱,他们可以用钱做到一切,穷人的生命不及他们的脸面,富人的脸面穷人的命都比不上,曾经向长河的烈士杨贤江的英灵喊过冤屈,可是没有用, 《贫穷的女人也有尊严》 网友[喜乐号子]对老朽所发表的《用一成不变的信仰与崇拜守护女人尊严》一文评论道:老师,大作拜读了!没曾想,老师早年还有过一段奇遇,并成就一段父女缘。您文章里描写的女儿是一个有信仰,有勇气,有智慧的坚强女人,令人佩服!人活一世其实很难,尤其是女人。当年看杨丽萍的舞蹈《云南印象》时,听过这首歌谣: 太阳歇得呢,月亮也歇得呢,女人歇不得 ,这首边疆少数民族古老的民谣让我潸然泪下。女人本该是被男人心疼的,现实中太多的女人内心要强如钢铁,要能撑起一片天,伤痛只能自己舔。不知这是不是女人的不幸? 世上没有甘愿一生贫穷的女人,不是每一个女人吃苦耐劳,忍辱负重就能换来财富。因此,有很多的女人追上了 女人变坏才有钱 的步伐,队伍非一般壮观! 钱 已经成为了许许多多男女的第一信仰。钱很重要,有钱可以买一切。健康和真正的幸福能买吗?这个问题好像很多人都忘了。非常赞同: 一个女人必须具备足够的经济实力,其生命才会充满魅力。所以,女人不能贫穷,从小就要学会自立,懂得自重。 十分富有又积德行善的高尚女人不会一直是一只孤燕,相信一个坚强,善良,有着坚定信仰的好女人,会有一个疼她爱她的好男人很快出现,祝福您的女儿! [喜乐号子]的评论,让老朽感触颇深,因而回复: 人的命运靠自己主宰,家庭姻缘靠天赐缘分。曾有人把婚姻看作 围城 ,城外的人想进去,城内的人又想出来。我放飞的这只燕子,在婚姻的围城里饱受凄凉,品尝够了 婚烟=坟墓 的滋味。你也不想想,聪明伶俐的小燕子既然飞出围城了,还会钻进去吗 ? 不幸的婚姻会让女人更加成熟,即便再次误入 坟墓 ,更要三思而行才对。老朽不赞成 婚姻=坟墓 的理论,只认为婚姻就是一个变化无穷的八卦图;男为阳,女为阴,阴阳相化出太极,关键在于人性修养的搭配与调和。有位名人说过: 婚姻是一本书,第一章写的是诗篇,而其余则是平淡的散文。 我觉得人性与婚姻的表相确是如此。因而主张婚姻在散文的年代,彼此更要加紧创作爱情的诗篇,女人心中的太阳才不会坠落,家庭生活才会幸福美满。不论男女,婚姻得靠自己去经营,痛苦和欢乐也必须由自己面对。干一杯人生苦酒,得到的应该是 一苦、二甜、三回味 啊,不这样又怎么行呢? 现代女性完美的追求,不外乎一要生命,二要爱情,三要独立。由此得知,女儿事业的生命旺盛,前程似锦;家庭经济独立自主,无后顾之忧;她爱情的专注早从对丈夫的信任和依赖,转化为对子女的传统教育与培养,其间免不了对神灵的信仰与崇拜、对社会的感恩和对远方亲人的牵挂。所以,女儿应该称得上最自由和最幸福的女人了,愁什么呢?! 老朽曾经说过,财富是女人勤劳和智慧的结晶,世上也没有甘愿一生贫穷的女人,天下更没有真正愿意堕落的女人啊。在缅甸等南亚国家,只有绝顶贫穷和极少数甘愿堕落的女人才会落入社会底层 沦为妓女、吸毒者和小偷。而具备炎黄文化传统教育的中国血统女性,不与堕落女性为伍,她们一旦步入富人世界,就会突显出女人高贵的人品与素养,即便人生落泊或遭遇破产,也决不会自动跳入性病感染和死亡的深坑,这便是中国传统女性的气节与真操。 中国女性的尊严不一定都是贵妇人的专利,贫穷的女人也有尊严,这就是中国女人的传统美德啊!女人本身不是坏水,金钱也并不是万能的。在这个纸碎金迷和物欲横流的时代,女人的信仰与崇拜千万不可忽视,因为传统思想教育和文化素养决定着一个女人一生的品行与情操。有人说: 好社会堕落的女人少,反之就多。主要是社会原因与背景造成女人堕落,其次是家庭与个人原因。 所以老朽认为,这是一种社会制度演变过程中伦理道德教育及其信仰失缺的问题。而且,这个严重的社会问题一直在干扰和破坏着中国传统美德的延续。 现今的中国社会,道德体系濒于崩溃,拜金主义抬头,少数官员贪腐与生活糜烂,恰恰给社会上愿做二奶和小三的女人,开凿出一个轻而易举就步入有权就有钱的梦幻世界,让很多好女人追上了坏的 时代步伐 。请问:这罪恶的根源又在哪里?难道只有 女人变坏才有钱 么?!难度每个女人都一样会败坏吗,是不是因为有些沉沦的女人,所有的女人都该被骂,被羞辱,是不是可以随便骂无辜的女人,可以随便践踏无辜的女人,让弱者女人一生穿上羞辱衣, 中国女性的尊严不一定都是贵妇人的专利,贫穷的女人也有尊严,这就是中国女人的传统美德啊!女人本身不是坏水,金钱也并不是万能的。在这个纸碎金迷和物欲横流的时代,女人的信仰与崇拜千万不可忽视,因为传统思想教育和文化素养决定着一个女人一生的品行与情操。有人说: 好社会堕落的女人少,反之就多。主要是社会原因与背景造成女人堕落,其次是家庭与个人原因。 所以老朽认为,这是一种社会制度演变过程中伦理道德教育及其信仰失缺的问题。而且,这个严重的社会问题一直在干扰和破坏着中国传统美德的延续。

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